I'm struggling with an attraction to a co-worker. I'm married and he's in a serious relationship. There's intense chemistry between us and I don't know where to put it. Theres no one I can talk to about it. I'm confident he feels the same but don't want to confess to him in case I'm so wrong or in case I'm so right. I don't want to damage our friendship and would rather have him as a friend than nothing at all. But it's driving me crazy to not know how he feels. I'm torturing myself, but I often feel alone in my marriage. This attention from coworker is innocent now but makes me feel so positive. I don't know what to do.