My husband and I are separated and it's more likely we'll divorce, not reconcile - which is okay since we're still friends...but I still love him - so this has been hard. If my life wasn't messy enough: I have a male friend who is married to another friend of mine...I've been infatuated with him for years (yes, he knows and is flattered) and he told me recently they are having serious marital problems - his wife didn't confide this to me, just him. So now I'm torn - I know even if they split, we'd never end up together because it would be way too weird for me to handle...but....I had the chance to sleep with him around Christmas 2 years ago - and didn't do it because I couldn't be unfaithful to my husband, no matter how tempting my friend was. I've always regretted it - and if the chance presented itself now - I'd do it, regardless of the potential consequences. A - I really want this...soon.