I’m 33 years old with 2 boys from a previous marriage ages 6 and 11. I recently moved back to my old city and state and ran into a familiar face. The son of the man I dated 10 years ago. He’s now 19. He was 9 when I was with his dad. It was a short relationship and it ended badly in my opinion. His son approaches me and asks me out on a date. I am apprehensive because it feels inappropriate but he doesn’t think so. I tell him it’s lust because of the age difference and he tells me it’s not he wants a future with me and that he will treat me better than his father did. I find it ironic that his father has tried to befriend me as well and tell me he needs to take care of me and repay me for being there when he needed someone. I don’t know what to do. Or what to think but the son is a football star in college and I’m sure he is pressed with many women and I’ve said he should sew his oats and he says he has and sex is t on his mind. He wants to seriously pursue me: I’m so shocked by this.