I wish my mom would just hurry up and die. I love her, but she has just gotten meaner and more miserable over the years, and she takes it out on the immediate family, while pretending everything's fine to everyone else. Now she's really sick, she wants all my cousins to remember her as a saint.... I don't think she really cares how we ( her immediate family) remembers her, because who would believe that -sweet old auntie- ever said/did anything that awful?