I tell my friends that I don't want him to ask me out because he's ugly, but I'm just saying that to cover up the fact that I really like him. I wonder what they would do if he asks me out and I say yes?

One of my co-workers is known to have a crush on me. He gives me those long, up-and-down looks all the time and constantly hangs around me at work. I'm not sure how I feel about him. Part of me is curiously attracted to him, but it could just be that I'm flattered he likes me. But part of me is hesitant to let any feelings grow, because I heard a nasty bit of information concerning his family and a -bad situation at home-. I'm not sure if I should encourage his flirting, or dump him like Monday's trash.

My uncle french kissed me when I was eleven years old, when he was drunk at a party. I'm sixteen years old now and I still feel guilty. Luckily, it didn't go any further. Also a good thing, I've only seen him once since then, as he's since divorced my biological aunt. I didn't like what he did to me, and I'm still very disgusted with him, but I still feel as if I could have just pushed away or at least told an adult. My father still doesn't know.

i am married man ....but i am seeking for a women , who is married to spice up my sex life , and i cannot stop my self from wanting them , to be true i do not like unmarried girl cause i want no commitments ...

I was laid-off almost 10 months ago, and I can't find work. I quit smoking pot so I would pass drug screenings for new jobs, but I haven't had so much as an interview in 6 months. I came into some cash, so I'm okay on money for at least 3 months. I'm thinking about giving up the search for a while, and just partying. This economy blows, and I'm sick of the rat race.

My best friend doesn't seem to like me anymore. I ask her whats the matter, face-to-face as well as over sms and the internet, but she doesn't reply. I really care about her but I think she likes her other friends more. To be honest, she's my only true friend and I think I'm losing her. I don't know what to do.

My husband and I are separated and it's more likely we'll divorce, not reconcile - which is okay since we're still friends...but I still love him - so this has been hard. If my life wasn't messy enough: I have a male friend who is married to another friend of mine...I've been infatuated with him for years (yes, he knows and is flattered) and he told me recently they are having serious marital problems - his wife didn't confide this to me, just him. So now I'm torn - I know even if they split, we'd never end up together because it would be way too weird for me to handle...but....I had the chance to sleep with him around Christmas 2 years ago - and didn't do it because I couldn't be unfaithful to my husband, no matter how tempting my friend was. I've always regretted it - and if the chance presented itself now - I'd do it, regardless of the potential consequences. A - I really want this...soon.

I secretly have a gay crush on one of my best friends. Everyone assumes I am straight. I have had straight relationships in the past (never for very long), and he has had some fairly serious straight relationships in his past. I get mixed signals from him. Sometimes I could swear he is into me, and other times he seems distant. This is starting to consume a large portion of my thoughts on a daily basis. I love him. Should I tell him and risk our friendship? Or should I keep it on the down-low and risk never knowing the truth?