I'm a married stay at home mom. I love my husband a lot, but his hours make spending time together nearly impossible. When we do find time, we rarely have sex. My sex drive is 3 or 4 times more than his, both before and after our baby was born. I constantly want sex for this reason, and I've taken to writing erotic novels under a pseudonym to give me an outlet for my fantasies. The problem is, I don't find our sex to be fulfilling. He comes quickly, and while I wouldn't call him a selfish lover, he's not as attentive to my needs as he was in the past. I have to use other means to get temporary satisfaction since I'm not willing to cheat on him. I just don't know what to do abt our lackluster sex life anymore...