I have a beautiful girlfriend whom I have been dating for 4 years. I can absolutely see myself spending the rest of my life with her, and plan on asking her to marry me some day. The only problem is that I cheated on her with her best friend, who I have dated previous to our relationship in a moment of weakness... I guess I never entirely got over the feelings I had for said friend. We both realized what we had done was wrong and want the best for my gf, so we decided not to speak of it ever. I feel extremely guilty inside and want to get it off my chest, however I don't want to risk the relationship I have now. I'm worried if I tell I could ruin what may very well be the best relationship I have ever had and if I don't and it somehow gets to her then she'll lose trust in me and hate me more. I don't know what to do.

Help me. Please. I'm only 15, I don't want to be the way I am. I don't want to be suicidal. I don't want to look at myself and feel ashamed. I'm in such a ridiculous amount of pain. I hate myself. So much. I cry myself to sleep listening to Waiting for the End by Linkin Park and Dear Agony by Breaking Benjamin. I see the scars all over my legs and shoulders from all the times I cut. Yah maybe I've stopped cutting, but I still self harm. I force myself to stand under the hottest water I can get out of my shower and burn myself like that. My skin is ugly and unattractive because of it. I just want to die. I'm so alone, my parents hate my lifestyle choices and I have no friends. I want to die. All those words from people, all their laughter at my pain. It stays with ne 24/7. I was told from a young age that I was a skank, a slut, a whore,a worthless piece of trash. I understand now, okay?! I'm worthless and a piece of emo garbage. I want to die.

I have been really down and out lately. I am having trouble getting plenty of sleep. I haven't seen friends of mine in ages. I am worried I might have depression. I feel miserable yet I can't talk to my family, I won't burden my friends and I am scared to ask for a shrink. I don't have the money for a shrink. I need to let emotions out yet I am slowly losing the ability to cry, Smile truthfully, Laughter that reaches my soul. I wish I didn't have to initiate all the hugs I get from my friends. I am having major self image issues and hating myself. I wish that I have a Significant other to tell me why I am loved. I am becoming ever more paranoid that people hate me. I don't know why people still like me. I am having trouble with school for the first time in my life. I really would love someone to show up along side me. I have been closing myself off because I am scared of being a burden, stupid, un natural. And so many other things. Thanks for listening.

I'm so lonely without you in my life! If you knew just how much it's hurting me that you have blocked me out of your life maybe you would see that I do and always have cared for you. You claim that I'm going to be a puppet for her for at least eighteen years, I say only if you allow it. I love you! Why can't you see that? I've loved you longer then I can remember, and I don't get how you can question that! If you love me, then please BONNIE let's give this thangs one last try! I'm sorry I let her bull get in the way of our happiness! I was a fool to let that keep me from loving you the way you deserve! It will never happen again, I need my BONNIE BACK!!!!!

I'm a married woman with one daughter. Me and my husband became more like friend than husband and wife. When i'm at my workplace I like to tease staffs around. Last week I started jokingly stalk this engineer who, I was told -is single-, at my office. We started online chat. More on I keep sending him message which he occasionally reply. Last Thursday we had company party. i spent most of time talking with him. After that I was sending him home. Then we kissed. It was a drunker kiss but I love it. when we arrived at his place my driver used his mobile to call last number and ... he got a wife. Up till now he disappeared. He didn't text back and he didn't accept my call. I'm very miserable now and it's breaking my heart. I just can't let it over without at least talking to him once more. My heart is aching.

I am struggling with the reality that I am a borderline hoarder. My mother had and continues to have hoarding tendencies. Our home when I was growing up was not one that I could invite friends over to. I sometimes have a hard time throwing things away. Luckily, in my adult life I have moved residences several times and each time I have forced myself to throw away and get rid of many things I don't need. However, I still feel that each time I bring too many items into my new home. I am in the process of moving in with my current boyfriend. I have never been treated so well by a man before and I think that I could see myself spending the rest of my life with him. I want to change so that we can have a happy and functional home together. I have hidden a lot of my hoarding tendencies from him well. But, in moving he mentioned that I should downsize my items. I felt embarrassed, but it's true. Has anyone else had to deal with hoarding? How did you overcome it?

Ever since ive seen a womans vagina when i was a kid, ive been obsessed with sex since then. I lost my verginity when i was 12 and almost did anything to get laid, even with men and older woman. i am now 18 and with a kid and gf for a year but im starting to have these uncontrollable urges again, i dont wanna cheat on her but its getting out of hand.

You mean everything to me. You always have. I know we'll probably never be together again, but you're still my best and only friend. I wish you didn't ignore me so much.