i have been married for over thirty years. my husband has a lover or concubine, who he keeps and has kept for several years. she has two children with him. i'm supposed to be mad, angry, dissapointed, hurt, enraged, but i am not. she is the best thing that has happened to him, and me. i love her and she is my best friend. we click. and sometimes, a few times, we laugh about him and his quirks. he likes to do the same thing with both girls. i only wish that we could all live together, and i could see the girls every day. after thirty plus years, i will gladly give up the bed to her, she is much younger and can handle his manly needs better than i. i would only ask for a visit now and then to remind me of my woman needs. and, i would very much want that one day she could stand up before all men and proclaim herself to be his wife and we could sit side by side at church, two wives together.

So I am almost 29 but I've never had a girlfriend. Not out of shyness or lack of opportunity, I just never met anyone that captured my interest. I feel really bad about one person in particular, she was a friend of mine and what I knew she was hoping for I could not deliver. After that night she was more and more difficult to talk to, and always seemed to be on the verge of tears. I realize now that I should have told her that the idea of making out with my friend was weird but there never seemed to be a good time to say it. I was probably kind of harsh once she started communicating only in texts, but I don't feel bad. And not feeling bad makes me feel bad sometimes. It's come to the point I hardly speak anymore because of a time period I was surrounded by longing. And the only thing I could think was, -Just say something. I have nothing I want to say to anyone.-

When I went to my boyfriend's house which is 1000km from my home, his parents didnt allow me to meet him. They hate me so much. So I stayed at hotel and spent 8 days all alone, crying because I had already bought the ticket flight and I could't go back earlier. When my friends asked me, how was meeting his family for the first time? I lied say it was great. I am too ego to admit that I'm rejected by my boyfriend's family.

Where do I begin... About 5 years ago I met this girl who I pestered to go on a date with me and she did. A few months later we moved in together. A few months later she asked me to make a baby with her. I felt pressure from her and caved in then eventually got married and had another baby. Long story short I am not happy and neither is she. I feel like I have high standards and she does not! I am a good looking guy average build and notice women looking at me and the crappy relationship is making it hard to think about staying faithful. She use to tell me she hated me and wanted a divorce until she found out i was sexting with a former fling and I told my girl that she with her broken promises of things and lower standards is turning me away. I felt bad about what I did but still desire other women badly. We still fight and still not happy so question is what to do?! I know thinking of other women is wrong but I cant help it I feel like I started a family too early!

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i can't decide if i'm over you yet. sometimes i cry cause i miss you so much and other times i don't even think about you. it sucks cause i thought we worked really well together and i still to this day don't know the reason why it didn't work out.

I am a 23 friendless virgin and a convicted sex offender. People terrify me and most days all I want to do is curl up and die.

When we were kids I should have said yes when I said no. I was scared. Then we meet again 11 years later. It felt so good to be around you just as it did before. But alas.. Despite everything that has happened (albeit briefly) there will always be a part of me that will always be yours. I'm not sure why. Loving you is my misfortune, Roman.