The truth is, even though I constantly give advice to those who seek it, I rarely feel qualified to give it. Like love, for instance. People think I know all about it simply because me and my boyfriend have been dating for over four years now. Truth is, whenever I do believe I have a handle on what 'relationship' means, I find some way to shake ours up (not in a good way) and learn more. I wish I did have a handle on it; the truth is, I don't feel too many sparks with my boyfriend; we get into physical stuff, and it's passionate, but after that...idk, it just seems like we can take that passion or sparks or whatever out of the bedroom and out while we're hanging out in public. Am I just in my own make-believe rut or do a lot of couples get to this point? (I'm also very afraid to tell him. I mean, he could still feel sparks every time he touches my hand. What if he feels like I've betrayed him?)

I've known this guy for about 7 years now. We lost contact but united once again freshman year. He then became my best friend and thats when he started dating my best friend. It didnt bother me at the time, but onced they broke up, i realized i had a crush on him. 3 years later, were not as close. And every time we talk we get into an argument. But still, i have that crush on him and i can't seem to forget about him. Hes said soo many things to hurt me and make me cry, but i cnstantly want to talk to him or at least be friends. He has a girl friend right now, and i must say im really jealous. When we look at each other, and catch each others eyes, i see something there, but fastly look away. I dont know what to do.

Im tired of being single. i just want someone to hold my hand, to talk to untill 3 in the morn. and someone who would be mine for a while. There was i guy that i fell for over the summer. video chats every night, texting ALL day. He started to flirt and i flirted back. I thought we would go somewhere by the time school started, but i was wrong. I still had feeling towards him. A few months later i realized i shouldnt any more when i saw his profile change from "single" to "in a relationship". they brok up after only a few weeks and i thought that i got over him, but i was wrong again. i tell my self i am done but when i see him i fall head over heels again <|3 H E I S M Y W E A K N E S S <|3

I've fallen in love with someone I don't even know. I should feel like a loser, but I feel like I can finally live freely without seeking the approval of others.

There is a girl I know who is pretty into me. She's been dating a guy for a little over a year, and lives with him. She says she has no feelings for him anymore, and has always had a thing for me. She is -very- attractive, and flirts with me through text often. She said she wants to no longer be in a relationship, but doesn't want to hurt him cause he has very low self-confidence, and she also has nowhere else to live. She told me the other day that she really wants me to sleep with her, at least once. She doesn't want to leave him right now, but just wants one night with me. I don't know him at all, and I find myself a bit conflicted, since I've slept with a married woman before and I didn't feel bad then, but I don't know what to do at this point.

I've developed a sort of crush on another guy. He is an extremely easy going, and kind hearted person, who I could see myself getting along with very well with in the future. However, he has never been completely clear about his intentions, or his preferences. I am completely unsure of what course of action to take at this point. I do not wish to be too forward, but at the same time, I know that if there is a chance then it is most definitely worth fighting for.

I want to die, but I don't want anyone to know just how broken I am.

I've liked this guy for 2.5 years. I've never told anyone, but I can't help myself from saying it here. We never talk, we're not exactly friends. It's hard to say if he dislikes me, hates me, or thinks I'm annoying. I don't think he likes me or has even noticed me. Last year I took all of my guts to talk to him and it was ok for a while but he would be nice at one point and then really mean at another. Hard to read him. Then I stopped talking to him and he never tried talking to me afterward. He pretty much hangs out with all guys and makes fun of girls most of the time. Immature I guess? Anyway I dunno what to do because I can't trust anyone I know enough to tell, and I'm not sure if I'm serious abt this guy...but I have butterflies in my stomach and my heart is bursting so I just had to spit it out somewhere