First it was going to be before the beginning of February. Then it was going to be by the end of February. Then it was going to be the week during March of my spring break. Then the weekend after that. Then definitely before April. Then maybe before I left to go home. Now it’s “sometime” but not a set date. I’m sitting here alone while he’s getting drunk with her and his best friend. And I’m getting buzzed by myself after a day at work. My friends say that I should drop it. I don’t want to let the only person I’ve loved on my own with no pressure slip through my fingers. My wait shows him how much I would sacrifice for him, even though it makes me sick to my stomach when I realize that he’s wrapped around someone else like my legs are wrapped around my body pillow. Is this obsession?

I'm the girlfriend of an amazing guy. I cheated on him, two days after we declared our relationship, not thinking it was a real proclamation of boyfriend-girlfriend. I cheated on him two months later out of curiosity. Now, its impossible for me to be ok with the fact that my boyfriend has now become good friends with the first guy I cheated on him with aka my best friend, who knew I was dating him in the first place. Hopefully this city is not so small and the second guy will remain anonymous.

Im an affair to a girl. I honestly hate the fact that shes dating some other guy, and I cant get the thought of her out of my mind. Its possible as well, that I am slowly falling for her.

I've been going out with this girl for 11 months, and I keep freaking out thinking she's going to break up with me, or that I've fucked up in some way, there're good times, and we're good in terms of sex and all. I just don't know what to do though. There's times when I feel like I'm going to snap and end it between us, then there's other times when I feel like we're going to be together forever. I really do love her but there's sometimes when I wonder if I'd just be better off alone. Or if she'd be better off seeing another person, you know?

A friend of mine who I have known for seven years introduced me to his girlfriend. a week later, her and i got drunk and slept together. It then happened three more times. She broke up with him because of it, then found out that he had bought a ring and was planning to propose to her before she left him, and yet I don't feel bad at all. I wanted to date her in the first place, and I still want to, but i don't know if I should.

Having been a somewhat depressed person for the last 8 or so years I now find myself in a more confident state of mind. However I know feel as if I've somehow betrayed who I am, I no longer question as much as I once did and I seem to be almost blind to everything bad, nasty and downright cruel that once made me furious. Have I just grown up or am I just deluding myself to stay happy?

I'm embarrassed to admit it, but recently i came across this site where people could pour out their emotions to others in a way that wouldn't affect the real world. I quickly became fascinated by the stupidity of the concept, and I found it difficult to comprehend why people would tell strangers their deepest, darkest secrets when it would barely take any effort to back-trace the I.P. address of anyone who posted. Should I be horrified by this atrocious, wannabe security blanket, that imitated both professional mental treatment and simulates friendship, and proceed to write something filled with satire about it, or should I find it a good thing?

i haven't seen my girlfriend of 3 years in about 3 months now because of work and school. recently shes started hanging out with some new friends (female) and we've been talking less and less. it seems like every time we do talk, she gets angry because i ask her how shes been and why i haven't heard from her. i'm starting to think maybe she's not interested and the right thing to do would be to break it off.