im 24 years old. theres a guy that i've been sleeping with for the past four years.Although we are not dating we do not sleep with anyone but eachother.three days ago i ended up getting drunk and sleeping with his best friend...i confessed because i felt really guilty.he said he could forgive as long as i admitted to using protection.So i said-of course i did!im not stupid!-...but im actually really really stupid.because we didnt use protection...and now i have to live with the fact that i lied to a guy i care about more than anyone...im thinking about getting tested.out of respect for him and for me too...thoughts?

I'm a student that will be going away to college in less than a year. I'm terrified of leaving the people I love and all things familiar to me. I can't imagine me taking care of myself or doing the everyday things young adults are supposed to do for themselves. I already feel panicked about situations the I could encounter in becoming an adult and pursuing my education, which makes me fearful of the panic that may ensue when I'm actually on my own. Is there something I'm missing? Is this normal? And why am I incredibly afraid and not excited like many others in my situation?

I'm a girl but I've always felt like a boy. I'm 6ft tall, I love skateboarding, drinking beer and watching immature cartoons. I find it hard to relate to other women and I'm at my happiest when I'm wearing tomboyish clothes. I would never have a sex change because they don't go far enough, also I've always thought that if you're truly a guy trapped in a womans body then you're the luckiest guy in the world. Why would I want to get rid of my boobs? I just find quiet comfort in that only I know who I really am. Whenever I look in the mirror I feel shocked to see a girl looking back at me, but it's a pleasant surprise. I just accept that this is the way things turned out.

I'm 14. I have been going with a girl for a few weeks now. She said that she loved me, so, to avoid any fights, I replied back with the same thing. But on the inside, I really don't. I know this isn't going to go very far. Everyday, multiple times a day, I lie to her. It takes a bit of my heart out everyday. And soon, I think I'll have no heart left. What should I do? :/

I have the biggest crush on a teacher of mine...He's young, and really cute, with a great sense of humour. I try to get over him constantly, but he's soo incredibly sexy!! I know I could never date him....but he always talks about his fiance, and it breaks my heart. I absolutely love everything about him, and he'll never even know. *sigh* Oh well.

I am in love with a girl, but i'm totally straight otherwise. i've also been in love with my best friends boyfriend since the 8th grade. i'm confused, unhappy, and lacking what each person wants in a mate. i'm ridiculous.

I love my boyfriend with all my heart. I am so happy to be with him, and I want our relationship to last forever. But I can't help looking at other guys and flirting with other guys. I sometimes hope that my BF and I break up just so I can go back to sleeping around with strangers. Our sex life is completely satisfying, but I like the thrill of anonymous sex in strange places like parks and train stations. I know that admitting this to my BF would break his heart, and I couldn't do that to him. So I will be monogamous and faithful, but I'm afraid that one day I will come to resent him and cheat on him. The whole thing depresses me to no end, and I think that sometimes I'm better off single and alone.

I'm 13... anyway, i like a guy for so long, but once i go out with them for a week or so and then i break up with them because i just want to be single so i can flirt with other guys.. What's wrong with me? why can't i get a relationship that i like