i can't seem to find a decent guy in a small town..suggestions?!?

You probably thought I was just pretending to think I was pregnant to keep you. We were supposed to go to your place so I could take a pregnancy test, but I was really going to you that we were going to have a baby. I needed to tell you in person, and you wouldn't give me the chance. You already found someone else and you said it was serious. Already? I was so hurt and angry at you that I kept you from knowing the truth. But now that your little girl is running around and smiling just like her dad, I ache for you both to know each other.

My friend Toni is constantly talking about her friends whom I've never met. She randomly throws out names of people I don't even know, then continues talking about them, as if I'm supposed to care. I think she secretly likes to make me feel bad about not having any friends where I live. It makes me feel really lonely. And I think I'm secretly starting to hate her for it.

I have a friend who is in constant need of a boyfriend. Her ex cheated on her constantly, then decided to dump her because the other girl got cervical cancer. He recently found out that his new girlfriend is cheating on him (again), so he decided he wants to go back to my friend. He even asked her to marry him. But she already has a new boyfriend. And blah...blah...blah. Honestly, I'm so sick of hearing about all of it, I just want to scream. She doesn't listen to my advice, and all she does is complain about it. I feel like shaking her and just telling her she doesn't need a man and she can be an independent person. I don't even want to talk to her anymore about it, but that's all she seems to talk about. I feel obligated to keep talking to her because we've been friends for so long, but I don't know how much more I can take.

When I went shopping with this girl, whom I called my best friend, and stupidly I mentioned 'Christmas' to her and she got all weird. Because shes Jewish. I was in the shops passing by all the Christmas stuff, and I go 'I love Christmas' and then she gave me this massive dirty look, like I just insulted her family. And then, remembering i had invited her for a sleepover, I cringed and came up with a great idea. I faked sick. Really well, too. I pretened to have diarrohea and pretended to retch in the bathroom at the shops. She then went home. Ever since then, we drifted apart and nearly everytime I'm around her now, I mention Christmas, or some non-Jewish thing like my nans roast pork in front of her. I don't hate Jewdism, its just her being all 'Poor me, living in a Christian world and being Jewish' and I know that most Jews are very nice and accepting. Is this so bad since she always groans and moans about her life and not being accepted for being Jewish?

I don't know if I actually hate my in laws, or if I'm just jealous that I don't live close to my family anymore. I also don't know if I really hate kids, or if I'm jealous that my brother in law had one and I didn't. I don't even know if I want kids, so this jealousy is incredibly irrational. There is no way we could afford a baby right now, and I want to get through school before we even think about having kids. I think I'm just jealous that they're getting on with their lives, and I'm still stuck in school and my husband is stuck with a job he hates.

I am a girl, and for the first time in my life I feel like I'm truly in love, and not faking it for the sake of the other person. I am in love with another woman. I have finally found myself. The only problem is, she most likely doesn't feel the same. This is what crushes me.

After having read Descartes and Nietzsche, I am convinced that the world is devoid of objective moral truth -- that nothing supposedly horrendous is truly bad in of itself, and that nothing supposedly wonderful is truly good in of itself. Now I don't know where to go with my life, nor whether not I should care.