I am an 18 year old guy who dropped out of highschool in the ninth grade, and see no future for myself unless i join the armed forces.This is something that i have wanted to do my entire life. THE DILEMA: I am in a serious relationship with an amazing girl who i see myself spending the rest of my life with and she does'ent want me to join because she fears i will go to Iraq and i will be away for a long time.......Damn George W. Bush and his war if it wasnt for him and we werent in Iraq i would be able to join and become a successful responsible man with a college degree and a bright future full of benifits and anything i have ever wished for, now i am scared i will wind up like my parents in a camper with no running water or electricity.....this is not what i want for us -she deserves so much better-

I admit that I hit my girlfriend today, it was by accident but she is really upset by it. I love her so much and I don't want this to havea negative impact on our relationphip.

I love my wife but I will always want Rege. Her DD breasts and 3 inch areolas are something out of a fantasy. Rege, I love you.

I love my new boyfriend so much! I have been with him for 6 months and I am incredibly happy. Last summer I got out of a miserable relationship that dragged on for 5 years, and I wasn't sure how messed up I would be from that. The great thing is, I managed to get over it in a few months, probably because I spent so long emotionally getting out of it while I was still in it. So I just wanted to say _ if folks are in a crappy relationship - there is light at the end of the tunnel - you can be happy again!

He cheated on his wife for me and I fell to in love with him. Now all I do is spend most of my time alone. I wait for him and he is never there. Sometimes I cry because I miss him. I just wish I wouldnt have fallen in love with him. Never fall in love with a man who has a family. In the end you will drag the relationship out for years and get no where. I spent most of the best years of my life waiting around for him. He is never there. We are still together. Im no longer strong enough to break it off. I knew it was wrong in the beginning I should have said no. He lied to me at first and I dumped the only man that ever truely loved me for this life of misery. I feel for his wife and wish that I was dead. I know that if she finds out it will ruin her.

Im a 20yr old female who is in a longterm relationship with a great guy. I was in love with my best guy friend for years and was convinced he didnt love me so I moved on. I just found out that he does return the feelings but he also just got out of a similiar situation with a girl who used him and sold him out to her boyfriend when her boyfriend found out (He didnt know she was even dating anyone). Do I stay with my boyfriend? explore this further? Im crazy about both of them

Hi. I am a 26-year-old female. I have a relationship with an older divorced man for the past 4 years. I haven’t introduced him to my parents or family because I am scared of what they will think because of the age difference. (25 years) We are really fond of each other… -soul mates- I have been hiding the relationship for 4 years now. I have been living a lie... What the heck should I do? (please do not judge us, we know what is right and wrong but we cant help how we feel about each other)

I am a black female. I go to a high school that is mostly black. However I hang out mostly with white people and other ethnicities. I also listen to rock music and dress mostly in -rocker- clothing. Most of my friends do drugs or are not interested in school. Also they always are making racial jokes and call me a nigger. Recently I have separated myself from them. They treat me like shit and I let them because I am not outspoken and it is hard for me to say no to people. I have but up with them foe almost four years now. Not once have I said a thing to them about it. I know they don't care about me and I have tried to stop hanging around with them and finding new friends but every new friend I find treats me the same way.