I become infatuated with every attractive girl I meet. I wonder what that says about me. I'm 39 married and have one young child. My wife and I have a terrible relationship. I guess I'm lonely and want a close relationship with a girl I like. It has happened again, I met beautiful girl over the weekend and now she's stuck in my head. What is my problem?

I once worked as a lifeguard. A few weeks later, this new girl came to work and we hit it off. We hung out all the time and talked and everything. I was finally starting to work up the courage to ask her out when I had to leave unexpectedly for two weeks. I came back, and she was going out with another male lifeguard. I was crushed. When I used one of our (old) inside jokes, she wouldn't laugh. I'm not sure if she knows that I had a crush on her, but whenever I see her or talk to her, I always try to act like nothing ever happened. But now, I found out that we'll be working together again this summer, along with her boyfriend.

I have done a terrible thing.I was spying on others this weekend and then I wonder why I feel so bad physically and mentally,no wonder. I have made a false profile on a dating site and I found the person I was looking for,but there was no satisfaction.Even if the guy fucks me with his eyes every class, I had no right to do this. I don˙t want anybody to dig through my life and secrets,right?I deleted the profile and I will delete the other one too and never do this again. Ok,life must go on and I musn`t be evil.This was a stupid thing to do,I am so sorry Z. This was my admission.

I can't stand the pain.. Im so lonely. my girlfriend broke up with me, and I've been trying to get her back.. but no matter what I do I just seem to push her away further and further. I just wish we could be happy with each other, but I dont know how she feels anymore... Why is it so hard to let go?? I just wish she would call me, saying how she missed me.. and wanna be together... but I know thats not gonna happen and that makes me soo sad... I'm afraid of not finding anyone else... I dont have many friends and thats just make things even worse =[

I hate the way you're not romantic. Ever. It hurts me so much. You used to do all this cute stuff for her, even though she never deserved it or appreciated it. And then you tell me about it, or I'm reminded of it. And I just keep thinking to myself, am I not worthy of it? Am I not good enough? Why can't you put forth a little more effort to make me feel special. We've been wanting this relationship for so long, and now it's going to fall apart... I pretend like I'm not, but I'm still hurt by the past and when I say don't do things, it's at those times I wish you could just realize I really want you to do it. I don't want you to feel obligated. But is it, so much, to make me feel special every once in a while? I don't want to compare myself to her, but sometimes it's so hard. And I'm never good enough.

I'm so depressed. I have been trying to get him to notice me for months, I've done everything but nothing seems to work. He is rich, successful and so good looking but he doesn't seem to care. I try so hard to be noticed, I've done my hair, I wear pretty dresses and always smile at him even though my heart is breaking. I just don't know what to do. I've tried phoning his house and screaming abuse at his wife but she just hangs up. I've even followed his brat kids to their primary school and told them that their parents were dead. I've posted dog shit through his letterbox and nailed the family cat to the children's treehouse but nothing seems to work. My heart is breaking because he always looks so sad and stressed out and I know I could help him. I know he and his wife don't get on because after I hid some soiled knickers in his coat and she found them, I could hear them argueing. Why can't she let him go? Then we could be together and I could put his kids into care.

I am so lost in my dreams of an old boyfriend who died last year in Iraq. I am married with one child and he got married too. But I have always been dreaming about him since we broke up. We broke up twice once was due to me being raped (not by him). I told him and he broke up with me for a little bit. He was just scared of the whole idea of what happen to me and of course me going a little crazy about it too. I guess I started to close myself off from him and I could not even tell him I loved him because I felt dirty. So that is why we broke up the first time. The second time was that I was fixing to graduate from high school and he still had one more year. Well I was planing to leave to go to college in another town so he told me he could not stand to lose me again. We kind of kept in touch because I did not move away after all. But anyways we both got married to other people. I still dream about him and I guess its because he is my first love. So whats does it all mean?

You are my best friend and I hate everything about you. I don't know how it happened but I do. I hate who you are and I hate everything that you stand for. You aggravate the shit out of me and I can't take it anymore. I live with you and we are constantly together and I just want to erase you from my memory. You're a condescending bastard who can never accept that he is wrong. Leave me alone and let me live my own fucking life.