Is it wrong to want to experiment sexually when you are married even though your partner doesn't want to? How do I handle this situation? Do I just forget about it or do I try to convince my partner?

I thought I could control myself around you. I thought you'd watch yourself around me. Both our angels flew off our shoulders, and the devils won.

I am 14 years old and today i drank for the first time. Both my parents are alcoholics and i do not live with them, i live with my grandmother. I did control myself and only drank 3 shots, but i feel like in a way i let my grandmother down because i am not telling her and because she expects more in me. i am smoked but only 2 puffs of a cigar. I feel extremely stupid and i am not going to drink now for a very long time and am never going to smoke again. I wanted to say i am so sorry for doing what i did, and thats all i did and that if i could rewind time i wouldn't have drank or smoked. i am sooo sorry and i love you grandma.

well me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up and know I'm going out with a new guy that i really like......but i don't know I lost my viginity to my ex and i dont know how long it is oppropriate to wait? i dont want the new guy to think i'm trashy but how long should i wait? he said when i feel ready but still HELP!

I don't want to seem clingy, but the fact that we've barely talked at all this weekend is killing me. Being in a long-distance relationship is tough, and it's even tougher when I gain a lot from talking, either doing the talking or being talked to. Chances are, he's just playing World of Warcraft, and that's okay. Really, it is. I know he still loves me and it's nothing personal, but I'm having a hard time convincing myself that he doesn't mean it personally. It's even more difficult having nothing to do, being in-between jobs and having my friends still in school. See, this gives me time to think, and when I think, that's when I make up horrible scenarios of what could be wrong with our relationship. I love him to death and don't want to lose him, and I don't think he knows the torment I'm going through. Again, I don't really want to bring it to his attention because I don't want to seem needy or clingy and scare him off... that's one of my worst fears.

I am 17 years old and about a year and a half ago one of my best friends died, she had AIDS. I wish I was dead instead of her, its not fair that I'm going to get to do so many things that she will never get to do. For example, graduate high school or go to college or even simple things like go swiming or have a picnic. I feel guilty doing all these things that she should be doing, it should be her not me. I should be the one rotting away in a box. Sometimes I get scared that I'm going to forget her, I'll get too caught up in my own life and forget about her. There is no one I can talk to, my friends from school didnt know her and my friends who did know her moved back to NYC.

I wanted to kill a dog yeasterday. I was walking and he just came from nowhere and started barking and threatening. He didn`t bite me. On my way back i found a stick to beat him if he dares to attack me, but he wasn`t there. Next time i go there i will bring a stick and maybe a spray. I hate when people let their dogs loose like that. I swear, if this animal dares to attack me , i will kill it.

My college mate really pissed me off today. He was rude, he usually is, but today he made fun of me in front of a whole group of our college mates. He does it on purpose, he knows exactly what i hate and does it. Now he dares to touch me and wont let me pass, things like that. I wanted to slap him, but i din`t. I was stupid and weak, i didn`t slap him just because the whole group was there and i swore to myself so many times that i want let anybody treat me like that without consequences. He is a bully, he just isn`t happy at all and needs to make fun of otheres to make himself look stronger. This won`t happen 2 more time, next time he does it, i will slap him, no matter the consequences.My so called best friend was there laughing and having a good time and of courese the guy who says he likes me was standing there and laughing, what a jerk, i certainly don`t need jerks in my life. I am tired of being a good, naive girl, one more time and they will see the real me, it wont be pleasant