I have had a problem with drinking that has led me to cheat on my boyfriend a few times. I feel absolutely horrible about it. I know it's my own fault for having been in the bar in the first place...but none of this would have happened if I hadn't been intoxicated. Men have taken advantage of me.

i'm 22 years old and working in a private company. i agreed to be the lover of my officemate, even though i am well aware he has a girlfriend. i gave to him my viriginity 2 months shortly after our affair started. we have been seeing each other for more than a year now. this relationship of ours only exists in the office. but once we go outside the office, we go back to our own lives as if our relationship doesn't exist. i love him more now more than anything else and i'm ready to give up my current lifestyle just to be with him. the problem is, i'm afraid to ask him to choose for fear that he will end up not choosing me...

I have cheated on my husband with seven different men over the last 4 years. I have deep regrets. I am so sure my husband is my perfect mate. It took years of messing up to feel so sure about that. He doesn't know about any of them. One of them is his friend.

Ugh! I am so sick of lying and pretending. i have to make sure everything is alright and never get to take care of myself. I am almost 24 and have never even kissed a guy or had a boyfriend. I am always so wraped up in others problems and drama i dont have a second for me. I cant stand the people around me. my parents, my friends the people i work with. they all drive me crazy and i want to scream. i try so hard. i am thoughtful and considerate. makesure i am doing whatever possible to help them out or be there for them, but who is there for me? No one. people cant even take one night out of their lives to hang out for my birthday. everyone is so selfish and consumed with themselves no even notices me, my depression, my sadness. if i dissapeared for ever no one would notice untill the dishes started pilling up or they realized they had no one to dump their shit on. sometimes i wish i could live in my dreams where things are as they should be, or atlest go to sleep and never wake up

I'm not built to be a father and a husband. Now I have two kids and a wife. I shouldn't of called her back after the one night stand. F#$k.

The love of my life dumped me after a month and a half of dating. I never got to make love to her and I really wanted my first time to be with her. I haven't been given the chance to be with anyone else yet and I'm pretty sure that's how it will always be. But she's with someone else and she's happy now, but I can't even talk to her anymore because my friends bitch about me to her and I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me. I would give everything I have if it meant I could wake up with her in my arms just once.

I've been dating my girl for a month but we were close friends before that. I had started to like her and she realized she liked me after I had a car accident. well the other day i sensed something was up and started talking to her and asked her if she was still goin out with me to not hurt our friendship, and she said alittle yes a little no. She said that she doesn't know if she's supressing her feelings in order to not get hurt or if she thought she had feelings for me when the accident happened. This is slowly driving me insane. Any ideas???? please

A few months back i had asked for help that i was falling in love with this girl and i was afraid it would never work out and someone adviced me to go for it and i went for it. And now she is my best friend and i know a lot about her and i have fallen in love with her totally. I expressed my feelings once or twice by telling her that i have a crush on her and i like her like hell.She did say she doesnt feel the same way. I also told her that it would be better for me to stop talking to her coz she doesnt feel the same way about me! But she forced me to come back telling she couldnt lose a good friend. And we became even closer.. Now i am slowly losing my mind and i am going mad. I am not able to sleep i think about her fall asleep and dream about her.I laugh and feel depressed for small things that she tells. She tells me i am her close friend. I need help i am afraid one day when i see her getting married to another guy i ll kill myself. So i am wondersing should i start avoiding her?