I think the sister of this girl I'm dating is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen. I've never felt like this about anyone and I'm 100% SURE that if I had met her before I would've loved her instantly.

I used to be a serious compulsive liar to get attention, I felt like no one would pay me attention if I didn't make my life more dramatic and be a victim all the time. I am so ashamed of myself and often feel like I'm vindictive and a fake I hate myself. I was very close to a couple who were a bit older than me, the man sexually abused me and I told the woman who am very close to and is my bestfriend but I don't know if i'm in love with her. I feel like because she's older than me I'm isolating all my friends and I don't want to go to uni I just wanna stay with her. My sister told her she thought I had a crush on her and I said I didn't. But I'm jealous of my sisters who see her quiite a lot. I feel so messed up I don't know what to think. I think I'm a lesbian but feel I sleep with lots of guys to prove something to myself. I don't want to do this anymore I wish I knew how I felt but I do love her completely but don't know if I'm in love with her. This is so hard right now.

I'm dating a woman 3000 miles away from me and she fully expects me to move out there. I told her I would...but I was rejected at a few interviews because of past drug use and credit history. I already have a job doing what I want here and I won't be able to do this job out where she lives. She can't move here...nobody will hire me there...I don't know if I can leave New York and live a life I want professionally.

Ive been a cutter for four years and it seems to be getting worser but i will never ask for help because then ill be considered weak by everyone because i cant stop it.

Lately I seem to be spiralling out of control. It all started when I met a new friend at work. We hit it off straight away and in my job I have to travel alot. We have a blast everywhere we go, and when we get home we call and text each other all the time, I genuinly love her. She rocks. I have always used drugs (Extacy and cocaine) and love to drink and get high. I was looking I think for friends that I could do it more with. I have been seeing her fiance behind her back for 6 months, and now I have fallen for him. We went to NY and I encouraged her to have an affair. She is now seeing this guy, and her fiance doesnt know. I will never tell him. I want to stop using coke because it is making me arrogant and without morals. Her fiance doesn't love me, now I am heartbroken and feel like a fool. And she is still seeing someone else, and I have just signed for a new apartment around the corner from theirs. My life is a mess.

I'm 21 and I'm dating a 46 yr old man whom I really really like. He is a local guy from my town and everyone knows the both of us and I think most are uncomfortable with this. He is moving very slowly with me which is fine but I think he is wicked scared. How do I get him to realize I'm serious. I havent even really liked a guy since my last boyfriend last april. we dated since i was 13 so I know how to be serious. This older guy just got a divorce 2 yrs ago and has a 7 yr old daughter...what should I do? I really like him, and i dont think age matters and apparently he cant too much..is it wrong?

Everyday I wake up happy because I know my life has just gotten shorter.

I hit a parked car a few days ago and didn't leave a note. I was rushing and didn't take the time to stop. Later I saw the same car and it was really damaged, with a broken tail light and a massive dent (my car had minimal damage). I was just thinking about writing a note to the car's owner when I got a call from the parking lot manager who found me out. So I wrote the note anyway and gave it to the owner in person. I admitted I was at fault and gave her my insurance information. I still feel like a heel. I should have wrote the note right away. Now I got caught and feel like a terrible person. I am obessesed with making this right, but I already had my chance and it didn't happen. I am ashamed.