I married by best friend and thought I was all set for life. And then I met him. He is sexy and tough and makes me smile uncontrollably. We've been having an affair for a year...and he's married too. We find solace in each other, and excitement. It makes me want to throw up, but I can't stop. I've tried, many times. And one look from him undoes me. Now I don't know if I should stay married. Everyone thinks I have the perfect life, husband, etc.....and they have no idea what is going on and that I am sad. And lost. He and I can never be together, so why do I continue this torture? Help.

I am in the middle of divorcing my wife. She met some guy wile playing video games. After more pain than I could have ever expected, I found that this is the best thing in the world that could have happened to me. Now it seems like everyday, someone from her past contacts me to tell me some other jacked up story about her cheating, lying, faking, and generally taking advantage of me. I hate to admit it, but that makes me feel pretty good. Apart from that, she wanted to let our house get foreclosed on. (Responsible, eh?) I ended up buying it, though. She just took off into her Walt Disney Princess world - waiting for someone new to take care of her. I wish those guys the best of luck with this tainted, selfish, lying, immature, inconsiderate, sloppy, self righteous, chubby 'female.'

I'm afarid and scared. What's going to happen when it ends with ur gurl. Are u goin to ask me to be ur gurl or tell me that what we have this friendship and this bond that u don't want to ruined what we have. Are u even goin to tell me when you two break up or jus leave me in the dirt. What should I think?You say that u want me but u can't leave your gurl. I feel that I should live my life but when u seen that pic of me and the other guy you got mad and asked why didn't i tell you about him. there was nothin to tell. what should i do?HELP

I split up with my ex at the start of the year and we have been sleeping together since. He calls and txt's me just as much and i see him just as often. Were just not just a couple any more. The sex is still amazing and all tho he dosent say it i think he still loves me. I am just so scared that he is gna go out one night and get snapped up by someone else and leave me. I dont know if i coud take it. I would just fall apart, he is my first love.

I have been married for a long time and seperated from my significant othrer for almost just as long. He cheated and I couldn't live with it but was so in love I couldn't bare to be without some sort of relationship with him, so just kept a distant relationship. I now know its not working and have told him that I am going to file for the divorce but I have to confess I am still madly in love with him but the cheating incident is very much still a sword between us and he refuses to discuss it and it happen over 6 years ago. Do I go ahead with the divorce or do I just let it go and keep this distant relationship that I am not content with at all but allows me to be near the one that I truly love. Yes, he says he still loves me but we can't get along which means to me a.k.a. that he loved her and did so many hurtful things to me that I wouldn't understand and would rather just let the relationship go than hurt me again.

my own father can't remember my name.

I love my boyfriend very much. It's that type of inconvientient, all consuming love. As of lately i feel as though he doesnt care and his ex grilfriend has been writing me telling me about things i should watch for with him, things hes doing.. not doing for me and what he's done. I have no proof that he's cheated on me but everyday im scared that somethings happened. Last week i noticed he had added her (his ex) on a network website and she's been leaving me messege amoung messege about him. I feel he still loves her and she wants him to hurt more than anything....but the only person being hurt is me. It's killing me inside ..i wish i could admit this to him.

ok, i know a guy, he has been my friend for about 6 months now. He used to be in a relationship with a girl that i just recently met and had intercourse with in the same night. he believes that she still loves him and wants to be in a relationship, but the thruth is, she wants that with me. i am sort offorced to hide our relationship, because their families know each other very well, and they wish the two had never split up. i really enjoy my friends company, and i also really care and want to be with this girl. i am sittig on a fence: do i let them all know how i feel, or stay where i'm at and wait?