im desparately trying to get my ex-boyfriend back and yet people tell me to forget him cause ha doesn't care about me. im just not happy knowing that im not with him. should i keep 'hunting' after him or shhould i let him go and suffer inner demise??? please give me word of advice someone.

I go to a prestigious university, I have good grades, I have amazing family and friends, and people tell me I'm pretty. Half of the time I'm really unhappy, and I've started to scratch myself with safety pins on my legs. I have horrible scabs now, but I really like them and I think I might continue to do this for a long time. I have a doctor's appointment this week, and I'm terrified that the doctor will make me strip, see the cuts, and tell my parents. I don't want to hurt them.

I'm in love with one of my roommates. So much so it hurts to be around him. I just don't know what to do. I'm the old school type of girl, a guy should go after the girl otherwise it means he's not interested. But I just don't know with him. It wouldn't be so bad except that we live together and if I said something and he rejected me that would be really akward. He was hitting on me when he was drunk a week ago but I made it so that he couldn't. I was afraid he was just looking for some and it didn't matter who it was. I'm pretty sure he hooked up with some girl he met that night later on. So I still don't know if I was just there at the right time or if he might really be interested. He's been around a bit in my circle of friends, so I really can't talk to them about this. I've never felt this way about a guy before, partially out of frustration. Aahhh! All comments welcome. What should I do? Are these the signs that he's not interested? And yes, I know he's a man whore...

I met a guy on the internet who said all the right things. We had plans to meet a few times but he always canceled at the last minute. He had an excuse – an anxiety problem. After a few months, I called him on it. He admitted that he enjoyed the thrill of toying with people and was only interested in the chase. Fast-forward to a few months later: I find out that he's been doing this to several people, working as a team with 2 friends. They trade notes on the people they mess with. There’s no financial gain for him, and no sexual one either, because he never meets or screws any of the girls he manipulates. He calls it “internet terrorism.” It’s about power. I’ve already reached out to a few girls who've been glad to hear the real story. Part of me wants revenge, but another part just wants to wash my hands of the whole situation. Also, I'm worried that the embarrassing photos I sent him will end up on some websites. He told someone he wants to start a website exposing his

My girlfriend of 7 years used to have a crush on my best freind at school before we started dating. Even though she assures me that she is over it i kind if know she isn't. Every time he comes round she makes an effort to dress up and she blatently flirts with him but always denies it. The other night we were arguing and i accused her and she admited it! she said she will always have a crush on him and can't help herself. What can i do, i feel helpless about the whole thing.

For the past month or so I have been looking at porn. I know that its wrong, and I know that its grose, but I don't know how to stop. It all started out with me just being curious and now I can't even get the nasty images out of my head. I am disgusted with what Im seeing, but yet can't keep my eyes off it. What do I do to make it all go away and stop wanting to do it? I keep telling my self never again and then I find myself looking at it again and I am sick of doing it its grose and nasty and I want to and need to stop. ps. please don't tell me to keep on looking at it cuz thats not the answer that I want, nor do I want that answer in my head.

I don't like my coworkers and I want to quit my job. I have only been here 2.5 years. Organization spent more than $100,000 on me for NOTHING. I feel coworkers are not honest and I can't understand why.

Boys and Girls: I feel so guilty getting California disability benefit. The reason is that I got the job by lying a little bit. I lied on the resume about my GPA. My real GPA was 2.9 but I indicated on the resume as 3.0. Most engineering companies would not hire a candidate that have a GPA that is lower than a 3.0. It seems like a minuscul lie but I still feel bad about it. So I quitted my technical job. I applied for a state benefit. My claim is true becuase I do have a mental health issue. The problem is that I don't feel right getting the state money since I was hired in a dishonest way. Best Regards, R.L.