i met this one guy at a party. he looks rly good and as soon as i saw him i knew i wanted him. we kept in touch after the party and we aranged to meet, but when we aranged to meet it was only for a fling, nothing seriouse. although i wanted something seriouse with him i agreed cuz i figured better something than nothing at all. well, he came over and we did pretty much everything, u get what i mean, and i tought it would be fine, but after he left i all of a sudden felt so dirty, used, and sick to my stomach. i didn't tell him that and i dunno what to say if he asks to meet up again..

I sit here on the computer with plenty of problems that I need to talk about and get out of my system and I read everyone else's problems as well and think "wow, its nice to know I'm not the only one with issues". But then I just want to cry because I hate seeing or hearing about anyone being as sad as I am. This is a tough world and sometimes I just dont want to go on anymore in it. The only thing that keeps me around is the fact that I have a wonderful daughter with an incredible heart that needs me. Other than that I would be gone. I just want to say to everyone out there that you are not alone in your feelings. Someone out there does understand the pain you are feeling. Its just too bad that all of the good kind hearted people cant all get together somehow and live happily ever after and leave these jerks behind.

i'm not happy with my life. i have braces, they make me feel self-conscience. i have a bumb in my nose, but i have a reason for that, i broke it long ago, but not everyone knows that and i feel ugly with it. i always feel fat when people tell me all the time that i'm too skinny. i don't know what to do... what's wrong with me? is there anything i can do? i'm alost really shy, but i'm taking zoloft cause my psychiatrist prescribed it for me, and i feel much better with it. but i still ahve some self-esteem problems. remember, im only 14, please help!!!

so many nice guys like me, really. but i dent ever wanna be more than just friends. its not that i'm scared of falling in love again, i just dont feel like it...i'd rather have all this fun...

i'm a doormat. i don't know why but people take advantage of my good nature. i will go out of my way to help people and those who are genuine and honest with me will never need to ask for help, but anyone who has abused my trust or good nature allways know about it. i've recently finished work on a building site and as a bonus the boss told us labourers to take the scrap steel for ourselves. which we did 2 5 tonne skipfulls(70 quid average per tonne) i spent 2 days solid of my own bat cutting the steel so everyone would benefit. well guess what? i've just been to collect my share of the cash and the fella handling the deal isn't to be found. and i don't care! 200 quid of my money that i worked for gone pffft into thin air and i could'nt care less. i'm not even thinking about revenge. i've seen money bring out the worst in people and its not going to bring out the worst in me.

im getting attatched to the same asshole again...he only wants sex but then keeps telling me he wants to see if im actually more than sex he makes me unhappy but i really like him i dont why....i dont understand why im attatched or why i get the idea that i have to please him

I broke up with my b/f and after about 8 months slept w/ another guy to get over my ex. I found an unsuspecting extremely innocent religious boy. He liked me and I took advantage, and his virginity. All for my own selfish reasons. I was just using him. I would feel awful if I were him. He went from first kiss to losing his virginity in like 2 weeks even if he was 25. I can be such a user. On the reverse side, it worked, it helped me to move on from my ex and realize that someone else can think I'm beautiful. And this guy always told me how beautiful I am and how he loves my body (I'm overweight) and made me feel likable. It was was so selfish though and it was completely my gain, one sided.

I feel bad over not saying anything to Nate. When I saw him sitting there by himself, I felt bad but didn't do anything.