I have been sleeping with a guy I work with for over five years now. It is not that we are in love each other. Although I thought I was at first. Now we are just best friends with benefits. The only time I feel guilty is when I see him with his wife and kids.

In a desperate attempt to find myself I left home in NJ and backpacked to Miami, FL. Life was good for a while. I met a guy, fell in love,..and got pregnant. Dumbest thing I ever did. Now I'm stuck packing lunches, picking up toys, doing laundry and desperately wishing I could just walk away from my life. I love my daughter and wish to be a perfect mom but I also still have all of those old dreams. Life just sucks.

okay im soooo confused people help me!! well i had such a bad horrible relationship w/ this guy who only used me to have sex and to get what he wanted i was completely heartbroken by him and recently i ran across his myspace and now ive been thinkin about him more than i wanna and im scared i will get involved with him again i dont want to!!! is it normal for me to be thinkin constantly about him again?what should i do?

Today my grandmother died, I then took a test while visiting my boyfriend, and discovered I'm pregnant as well. I'm 20 years old, and at the moment feel like tossing myself from the nearest cliff or drowning myself in the bathtub, which I hope is normal. May God help me.

I have a decent paying job, a wife who loves me, my house is paid off and I have three cars. My problem is absolutely none of this makes me happy. I can't even remember the last time I didn't fake a laugh for someone or avoid going out so I wouldn't run into anyone I know. All I think about 24-7 is my massage therapist, how much I care about her, how there is no way she'd ever care about me, how she's happily married and I wouldn't want to see her hurt in any way shape or form. Like everyone else I've had crushes before and that's not the case. I just can't get her out of my mind, nothing seems important any more. I've never been a quitter but I spend way too much time wishing I'd just have a heart attack in my sleep or imagining what it would be like to take all of the 80 Percocets I have stockpiled. Not that it would change anything, just I don't know where to turn any more. You spend your whole life looking for that one special person and it turns out they're married.

I am a bi guy who is not out. I was out in my teens but it was something that most thought in my family was a phase. I am a jock type, popular. I am married now and have been for three years. I am very happy but have had safe sex with guys. I love my wife but am also attracted to guys and feel I need a fix once in a while. I like the life I lead. I want to be with a women. My wife is a hot chick. I enjoy sex with her , for sure. I just need that once in a while feel with a bud. That is my secret which many are not aware of. If it were up to me I would live with both but that is not possible.

i dont know why i am always in a bad mood with the ones i love so much like my mom i love her so much but why do we always have to fight for any reason i mean she is the kind of mother who is always there for me all the time shes there and we share things but when i get mad i start telling her off and hit her what should i do?? now i love my boyfriend so much and i fight with him so much each day just for any lil reason and i don't like to fight but i dont even know why i get really mad why is that does any one here knows what wrong with me or anything? if so write to me bye

I'm in love with my best friend's husband - have been for months. I'd never try to break up their marriage (as messed up as it is) but I really, really want him - if only for one afternoon. I think....if I encouraged him, he would agree. My e-admit: I'm married to a really nice man who is going to be going on an extended trip after Christmas....and I think I'm going to try to get together with my friend's husband then.