I am currently on a client engagement and the I have a couple of colleagues who I am working with here. However, the client is not very happy with them and asked me for my feedback. The problem is that previous to these two folks, there were two other folks who were involved with the client. And those two guys were the best in our firm. So I made a very honest (off the record) adminttance that one a scale of one to 10 I would place the earlier two folks on 7+ and the current ones on 3+. Now i feel that it was bad of me to back-bite on my colleagues and am feeling very bad about it. I just hope that the client does not quote me outside.

I love my boyfriend very much, but he doesn't have as strong a libido as I do. I feel guilty for having pressured him, in my opinion, not his, into sex, and now whenever get consciously aroused, I feel so guilty I cry. I went from masturbating at least three times a day to once every two weeks.

I am a pedophile. I think children are beautiful and I do lust after them and fantasize about doing things with them, mostly boys (I am a man). I have never acted on these feelings and I am in my 40's. I feel like I am over the hardest part of my life dealing with these feelings since the urges to act on these feelings are easing. I have never been married but I have raised an alcoholic/abusive neighbor’s son since he was just a few years old. He is now 14 and I now have permanent custody. He has lived with me for more than 10 years now. I am confused because if I didn't have these feelings for boys I probably would not have pursued getting custody of this boy and he would now be in a much worse situation, or possibly even dead. He would not have known love. He is a great student and athlete, and is very loving and caring. He will be a great husband and father. I could not love him more. But I am filled with self hate because of my feelings for children. I just wish I could find peace

Lately I find life so boring, having no meaning at all. One of the counselers I saw said I was loosing... hope. Some mornings I wake up feeling alive. But more then others I wake up wishing I wasn't breathing. The current counselor I'm seeing is thinking this is because of me and my mother not getting along, when really I think it's because of everything, not just one specific thing. I feel like life is fake, not real. And it's bothering me. I've always been chipper and now.. I'm not. Now I sometimes cry for no reason when waking up, or before bed, or sometimes just randomly, I don't want to talk to anyone either, not even my friends. Ugh. I just feel so hopeless. Uhh.

I'm afraid of commiting relationships or even trying to talk to people to start a friendship. My friends pressure me about it but have no idea how i feel because there girlfriends hooked up with them, they didn't have to try or anything. nor do they know that i think about ending it all sometimes, but when ever i try confiding in them, they either laugh or tell everyone my secrets.

I slept with my boss. Not in an effort to advance in my career, but just because I wanted to. He's not married, but he has a long-term, serious girlfriend. I'd do it again.

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 years and have cheated on him probably over 100 times. I cannot stop cheating on him. He is a shitty boyfriend yet i cant seem to let him go.

I've been so lonely, I just want someone to hold and to sleep with, not even nessisarily in a sexual way. But, I've been frustrated too; I can't seem to find anyone to have a relationship with. Sometimes I wonder if I should find someone nearby and try to hookup. Everything is so complicated now...