Jus a general curiosity question for my friend cas. Why is it that guys cheat when they say they love the person they are with??? And they tell you they dont know why they did it whether they were soba or not????

my job sucks!! i thought i was gonna become permanent with more money but instead i have to leave b/c i know i'll never move up and i don't want them to find out that i don't have my h.s. diploma or a ged.

I'm trying to decide what to do. i've kinda been with this guy for a few months and we've only slept together once. the problem is that i have herpes and i haven't told anyone. i know i should tell the truth but i can't imagine anyone being with me knowing this. i know if the situation was reversed i probably wouldn't want to be with someone who told me they had an std. i'm always careful i just don't want this to change people's opinion of me. it would be easier just to end it now so that i don't have to tell him anything but i'm afraid that i'll always be running from any commitment cos i'm scared of rejection.

well school started 10 days ago including today, and 2 days before school my girlfriend broke up with me, to go out with a guy who i see every day in shop because im in a technical school...so i see him ALL day long, and now that we are back in academics where we have classes, that bitch who broke up with me is in my home room, chemistry class, math class, and 2 of my study halls....i hate her so much, and i hate her new b/f more cause he is the reason she broke up with me.....i want to cause her as much pain as she caused me....i say i dont love her anymore because of what she did....but everytime i see her.....its like a little bit of that hate goes away each time.....but i want to hate her.....idk what 2 do.....

I think I'm in love with an inanimate object. I swear I'm not making this up. I need to know what you think, and what should I do.

im not a feminist but i grew out my armpit hair bc im too lazy to take a shower and even lazier to shave

I am 18 years old and for the last few months I have hidden my addiction to smoking a few cigarettes each day. No one knows it, none of my friends, my mom , or brother. I enjoy it because I don't do drugs or drink, so to me it is the one "risk" I take. I am a genrally stressful person with school and all and it is one thing that somewhat relaxes me, so I don't really want to quit. I am totally afraid of what my friends might think of me smoking becasue I know they object it, but everyday I wish they would somehow figure it out so I could just enjoy it and not be so afraid of actually getting caught. I know my friends would get over it within a week or so but I just can't imagine the initial shock of just letting them know. I can't keep going on hiding this but I certainly don't want to tell anyone.

I don't know what I want from my father. Back in march he pushed me off a chair and proceeded in trying to chuck it at me but then saw my mum coming so he threw it in her direction. That night my mum and I went to stay with my cousins and we got a court order put on my dad. I went almost three months without talking to my dad, but, one day I was ill so I was off school and he was coming round to collect some of his things, so I texted him telling him that I was at home and that I wanted to see him. He has never apologised to me sincerely, for anything (he has done other things in the past, such as chucking books at me and going off with his gf at christmas instead of being with me). The thing is that I don't know what I want from him, sometimes I want him to be here, and other times I want him to be as far away from me as possible. I'm still so mixed up, and it hurts me everyday.