I'm married and I had a one-night fling with an (also married) ex-boyfriend. We have been emailing each other since, flirting and trying to set up another meeting. I found myself becoming obsessed with him, and today, I went to his house when I knew he wasn't home, pretending to be a courier, just so that I could get a look at his wife and kids. She seemed so very nice and sweet, and now I feel angry with him that he would deceive her, and guilty about doing this to her in the first place.

when i'm babysitting my neighbors daughter and we go in public, when people comment on how cute she is, i pretend she's mine.

I only like guys who are assholes... if guys treat me nice, I push them away, but the minute a guy says something assholish to me, I fall in love. My last ex was the sweetest guy ever, and I didn't have strong feelings for him until the night he said some mean stuff and said he never wanted to talk to me again, then I fell in love with him. If I had a line up of 9 guys with flowers and chocolate to give me, and one guy with nothing, i would probably pick the guy without anything.

Theres a girl who works behind the bar in my local pub. I think she's the most beautiful girl i've ever seen but I find it difficult to find the confidence to speak to her

im latina and all i do is date black guys which no one has problem with but everytime i date a guy i tell him im half black...ay ay ay and suddenly ive found the same sex attractice.....loca in miami

right ok i'll condense this admission. im a decent fella good family blah blah.work hard all me life go to a job where i get treated like absolute shit. i do a specialized job where i work on me own and i am my own boss more or less. most fit men could not do the work i do, day in day out i'm outside getting soaked or burnt and i've done it for 17 years from leaving school(age 15) and i never once have had my work ethic questioned untill this one bitch(sorry ladies its from the heart) dared question my work, not only that she had a few ideas on how i could be more productive !!! like ugh? me work wif hands woman no work wif hands me boss u not boss no tell me job what do. obviously it was way above her, and she bitched to my boss. long story short. i come back from me holidays and shes right in my face.

I spent the night with her two weeks ago, and I regret not kissing her again-- or being able to touch her in public without wanting to cry. I'm leaving in a month and a half, and now I don't want to go to the one place I love.

I've been "crushing" on this guy(Matt) for about 9 months now.. and he's known for about 7 months how I feel... but we could never do anything because at the time I was dating one of his friends... Me and my then boyfriend broke up and a week later I started dating Matt. Things started out great and I really like him.. but recently things have been weird... it feels like he doesn't really want me around.. and we've talked about it... but the feeling keeps coming back..I think it may be because I have major trust issues for everyone.. but I feel like i trust him... i dont know what it is... and I dont know how to deal with it... Another problem.. the last 3 times we've gotten intimate.. 2 times he lost the erectiion and the last time he came like 5 minutes into... which is weird because all the other times we've been together we've gone like hour-hour and a half... I dont know if maybe he's just not into it anymore or if I'm doing something wrong... any help or advice on either?!?