My boyfriend moved in w/me a month after we met & we were engaged within 6 months. (He's only 22 & I'm 26) After a yr & 1/2 of being together, he decided he wanted "freedom" to be a guy & moved out one weekend. I was devastated @ 1st but realized that wouldn't get me anywhere so for about 2 weeks, I acted like I was happy for him & it didn't bother me that he split all while I was dying inside. In any case, he realized that "freedom" isn't as great as his friends made it out to be & wanted to get back together. He finally confessed that he wanted to sleep w/other women and that was one of the reason he split. I was an alcoholic & extremely overweight but if he loved me, shouldn't he have brought this to my attention instead of running? Long story short, he's moving back in w/me @ the end of the month. He claims he loves me and wants to be w/me - Can I believe him? He never cheated on me but it still hurts that he took off @ the drop of a hat. Any ideas/suggestions?

i think im in love with my second cousin, but i dont know if its wrong or not, i cant write to her or call her but i cant get this feeling out of my heart, i dont know if i should even try and make the effort to make it work, i know she has feelings for me but i just dont know what to do

The life in U.K. start being a pain in the ass. I'll finish my study and go back to my country. Damn.. I missed it.

i'm falling for one of my students. he turns 18 soon. but he has another whole year of high school left. i'm trying to decide which i want more, my teaching certificate or him. i don't know if i can wait until next summer.

im from belfast ireland and absolutley believe in segregation. i dont want protetsants to work with me, live beside me, or share my childs education or share my table. i wish to hell people would get off their high horses and understand its both ways we hate them as much as they hate us.

I have this friend who is a guy. From the moment I met him, I've been head over heels in love with him. I've never tried to be anything but his friend though. He says all he wants is friendship but I've noticed how he treats me compared to others. If I touch him, he runs away. I can't joke with him about anything sexual in nature and if I ask a simple question he claims I'm interrogating him. Guys, please help me understand. He either really doesn't like me, or he likes me way more than he pretends. Which do you think it is and any advice?

last weekend i decided i was going to quit smoking weed and drinking and doing other drugs. forever. but today (friday), i was offered almost 50 bucks worth of weed for a price of 15 dollars!!! HOW CAN I RESIST!!! I feel so bad, now i am going to get soooooooooooo baked. incredibly. i thought i could do it. maybe i need to get professional help. help?

my girlfriend has just told me if i was ever a player she would never be with me. since i've been with her i've never looked at another woman, but before we got together i wasnt a virgin; neither was she. i've had one night stands where i was the victim, used for fun and dumped. not a very nice way to be a walking breathing version of a dildo. so if a bloke is the victim of one night stands is he a player? but for a woman to have a one night stand shes a slut or just meat a toy for blokes. please somebody clarify if a bloke can have a one night stand(or numerous) and be called a player, a woman can have as many sexual partners as she pleases and be free spirited!. women are the reign pullers of the shire horse that is men. so whos the slut? the one doing the riding or the one with the riding crop?