my Father and Mother were both alchoholics and they both sexually abused me and my father beat me a lot for years i had bruises all over my body and if i didnt do what he wanted sexually he would beat my Mother. My Mother checked me when i was 14 to see if i was a virgin i was of course but it was humiliating. even though this happened to me i have no problem in the love making department but when i drink i get very angry and beligerent with the person i love the most my boyfriend i hate myself when i act like that i dont know why i do it any advice besides stop drinking

i met a lady from england in a bar last year, we had a great time. at that time i was basically homeless and had a really rotten job where i was treated like garbage. the next morning in the hotel room she told me that she was falling in love with me!. i had no intention of skipping off in the middle of the night. but that was the last thing i wanted to hear as my life was falling apart at the seams, and couldnt risk someone innocent getting caught up in the backwash of my misery. we spent the weekend together, went for walks by the river ect. when the time came for her to go back home she asked me if we could make a go of it? i said anythings possible. we've now been living together for a year. i have always considered myself a gentleman and honest. this is for all the other women who lied and kept me hanging on or just used me for fun. We have a disposable income. go where and whenever we please, and enganged. thanks for treating me like shit i've never been happier

In the next 5 weeks i will be bording a plane going one way to Brisbane Australia and 'Oh My God am i excited' i have handed my notice in at work and have 2 weeks left to go although i am so fed up i feel like never going back but on the other hand i want a good referance. This company have never paid my wages right and just mess me around all the time and i think its about time they got a taste of their own medicine....Please tell me if i should stay on or say stuff it.

The only reason I'm writing this is because I'm at school, it's my lunch break, and I hate people. I'm seventeen, but i hate other kids my age because they're so stupid and immature. They're concerns are nothing bigger than "Omg, like what color should i dye my hair?!" or, "Guys, tomorrow is Valentine's day and I'm so desperate that I'm going to dinner with my ex boyfriend." I actually overheard those two in a conversation of girls in grade twelve. Is there any IQ left in this world or are they running low on it and using it scarcely these days to save at least a little bit for everyone. Another thing; why do guys insist on sitting in their cars on school property, or ANY Tim Horton's in the country blasting their music and "chilling". Not only teens, but last night I drove past a Timmies at night and my little brother pointed out that one group of like twenty people was a balding middle-aged sausage fest. It's not cool. Get an education, grow up, and move out of the nest. End of rant.

Am a married lady 29 years old. My husand was my first love...was a virgin when i married him. Last year i felt my marriage was hopeless, reason my husband being too busy to be with me and we fighting over trivial issues a lot. It felt like a mistake. I got drawn towards a frined i have known for 8 years now. I was back in my mothers home last August in London where i met him and slept with him and it was geat sex....so awsome that i slept with hime thrice...But now having come back home to my husband and things working out well again i feel deep sense of love for him. I know i cheated but feel helpless about taking it back. Sometimes i think i should tell my husband but fear that might destroy him...because he loves me very much. I cant do that to him. I think i should move on..but guilt kills me a lot. But i dont think its right to be selfish and just becasue i feel guilty i go and wreck my husands life. Am confused. Any thoughts ?

I have been dating this guy for 3 years and he is verbally abusive. I know that he is this way because of his parents relationship. He calls me names, and enjoys seeing me cry. I fear everyday what he will say. I have given him so much control over me its scary. I was isolating myself because i was ashamed, but just recently i started making friends again. I recently had a friend tell me that if want to know what kind of relationship i'm going to have with this guy..if we ever were married....i need to take a close look at the relationship that his mom and dad have and that is going to be my relationship. I'm scared to go home at night when i know he is going to be there because i know he is going to start and argument and sometimes i wish he would just hit me rather than say the things he says at least i know those bruises would go away.

i have to tell my mom tonight that i am five months pregnant... im afraid she won't love me like she used to after i tell her. i dont want her to hate me because she is all that i have. i no longer have any friends because they all like to party and sleep around and i do not want to do that anymore ever so i stopped haning out with them. i dont want a baby. im not independent at all, i still crawl in my moms bed when i have nightmares. this is going to shock her and she will hate me.

He has been my friend for 10 years.I like him.We've fooled around over the years, but never had sex. I Have a phobia about sex.I cant seem to do it.I promised him a while back that we'll have sex.I chickened out.He was so mad,But i deserved it.I didn't to play with him like that so i told him i changed my mind.After cursing me out,he's still my friend.He's still trying to convince me. I told him there is more ass out ther.Don't bother me with it.What should i do?