I mete you through a friend. As soon as I saw you I knew you were special. But I am taken by a man I stopped loving 2 yrs ago. We are only together because of our daughter. He knows I feel nothing more for him. I tried everything to make you see I liked you. But instead you fell for her. She tossed you away when she got bored of you. You were just a toy to her. I would never do that to you. Never. But I will never have te chance to show you that. You dont see me that way. You said so yourself. I love you, I love you so much. Even if I can be nothing more then a friend. I will always love you.

I am in my 40's and met a young lady 19 online a few months ago. We chatted then met in real life. we did the nasty and it was prety fun while it lasted (threetimes). But the truth is is that she is not a good lover as some of the mature women that I have dated. Would I do it again ???? Probably if I get the chance.

It's been 10 months now since I first cheated on my boyfriend... with his best friend. He thinks everything is fine now... He thinks we're fine now. He is madly in love with me and continues to talk about marriage. I know that I'm not ready for marriage but what I don't know is if I want to be with me. I've been obsessing over his best friend since the whole thing happened. He is all I can think about. Don't get me wrong... I still love my boyfriend and can see potential in our relationship but I am stuck in the past by these intense feelings that I have for his best friend (Who is obviously no longer his best friend.) That guy is dating someone else now though but I can't help but feel that he'd leave her for me. I know this is all so wrong but I don't know what to do. Should I leave my boyfriend? Should I be single? Should I see if this other guy would ever want a relationship in the future? Should I just seek help because I am a crazy person with an emotional addicton!!

I've had a crush on my best friend ever since I've known him. A mutual acquaintance came up to me at a party the other day.

I have just gotten into a huge fight with my mom, who lives about 200 miles away from me. I need to admit I was wrong, even though I don't think I was, if I want to make it up with her. How should I do that?

I'm currently not having sex with my long-time boyfriend of eight years. My father had lots of porn in the house when I was little, and he stored most of it in my room. 90% of it was about incest and beastiality. I'm pretty sure that he sexually abused me, although I can't allow myself to completely remember. I've had plenty of horrible nightmares about this, and have even been hospitalized, although I refused to discuss this with anyone. I'm afraid to have sex anymore, because when I do, images of incest and beastiality torment me. My mother also used to masturbate in front of me nearly every day, although she would NEVER admit it. I want to get married and move on with my life, but I'm afraid that if I have children, they will somehow be tainted or carry a monster gene. My boyfriend's family has been pressuring us to get married already, and my mother wants grandchildren, but I'm terrified... I have NEVER considered sexually abusing anyone and have moved away from my family.

I am engaged to be married, and though I love the guy and he makes me reasonably happy, I can't shake the feeling that marrying him is/will be a mistake. Meanwhile, I'm suddenly consumed with thoughts of a male friend I've parted ways with at my fiance's insistance. We were good friends for a long time and there was mutual interest that we never acted on. I'm not sure if I "want" him, or if it's just meaningless wishful thinking of what could have been or cold feet. has this or something similar happened to anyone else?

i've fallen in love with a friend of mine, shes so great but she has a boyfriend, i don't want to mess up our friendship by telling her i like her, but it's killing me inside not being able to tell her how i feel. She really loves her boyfriend and i don't know what to do or how to get over it.