Well i had it going good with my current boyfriend until i ruined it when my ex came around. I cheated on my boyfriend with him.. i broke up with my current boyfriend because i felt guilty. But now my ex told me that he wanted to try with me but he never does though. He calls me but then does somehting else he is the one that makes the plans and never follows through.. i mean i dont know what to do because i wanted my ex forver but i mean im not gonna sit around and wait but its so hard not to fall into him again.. he makes me so anxious/happy/angry all at the same time when he pulls stuff like this. He told me that he wanted to start over with me and try again with me but then its like he never says whats he gonna do.. i mean i already told him stop biting the nad that feeds but i want him so bad that i get mad at myself for being mean to him.. i mean i dont know anymore.. help?!

I have a crush on a man at work and its driving me crazy. Im 26 and in a happy long term relationship, but i fancy this man so much that i think about him all the time. We get on really well and there is a big sexual spark between us, i think what makes it worse is the fact hes single. At our xmas work party we spent the evening chatting and hugging on the sofa which i re- live over and over. I think he fancies me too but is too much of an honest guy to make a move as he used to work with my partner. Im sending myself crazy, we are so similar and when we talk its like time flies and we always get interupted. I think about him all the time, how do i try and cope with this?

He's so beautiful. He's the sweetest person in the world. He always takes time to talk to me or reassure me with a quick hug or he'll squeeze my hand and make me laugh. I don't want him to know how happy it makes me when he plays with my hair on a whim. I don't want him to know how worried I am about him when I notice all of the scars on his arms. I don't want him to know I have this stupid crush on him because he'd never act the same way around me if he knew. I thought I'd be able to tell him because I'd be moving this year. It turns out we'll both be going to the same school and I'd see him anyway. I can't let him know because the truth is I'm not beautiful enough to be near him. He'd never think of me as anything other than a person to talk to. I'm not even sure he considers me a friend. Sometimes I just want to tell him all of this - but I know I'm not allowed to.

I've fallen in love with a man who's marrying the mother of his child in 15 days. He's a co-worker, in a workplace that forbids fraternization between employees. Nevertheless, over the past few months, I fell for him, and it's obvious he fell for me. The woman he's marrying is the mother of his youngest child, and has cared for his other 3 children for the past few years, but she doesn't treat him well, and it's clear he's not happy. But he's marrying her. Out of a sense of martyrdom, I think. And because he feels it's best for his children. I've been quiet and understanding about the whole situation, but in reality, I want to scream

Last message (different account) was never approved. So here's a briefer version of it: I'm not all that popular at my school. However, I find one of the hottest girls in the school (who has a reputation as "unattainable" because she's never dated anyone, at least not over-the-table) attractive, as do most people. Thing is, I don't like her just for her looks. We talk on MSN a lot, and we have similar interests/taste. I'm worried she'd be embarassed to be seen with me though. (I'm not ugly or overweight or anything, just sort of. . .out of her league.) It's really hard to tell whether she likes me back though. Help? Please comment/PM me. A note to all the people who are going to say "go ahead, you only live once, you only risk rejection" etc.: yeah, okay, I know. Don't bother with that argument.

That friend of mine, who's pregnant? I didn't mention a little detail: I was present during the conception - it was a threesome, me her and her boyfriend. I've got over my broodiness, now, I did long ago. But I do feel sort of responsible for the baby. I was part of his conception. And she's in labour, right now, up at the hospital. I feel so nervous. I know it's nothing compared to what she must be feeling - I'm nothing more than, say, an aunt. But I still have butterflies in my tummy. And I have to go to work shortly. 'Cause I'm not part of the relationship, I don't get to be there, I'll find out what happened later as soon as someone txts me to let me know. And that's right. I'm not gonna be a stable part of this child's life. I might be leaving the country in a few months. But I feel sick with anticipation and worry right now anyway, for the baby and his mum, and sympathy for his dad. I wish I could be there, though I've no right to be. Just wanted to tell someone.

I pretend to have a boyfriend in another town so the guy i like (who doesn't like me back) will think i am a wanted person and so he might be interested in me. i am a terrible person.

Ok... Well I never thought I was a lesbian, I mean I have thought about but yeah. I was at a school camp last week... And me and 2 other girls had to share a tent. Somewhere in the middle of the night I woke up because I was really uncomfortable and a found out that my friends had moved around and one of them had her pussy practicly next to my face! I sat there for a moment and realised that I had gotten really wet. I acted on impusle and started rubbing her pussy with one hand and I guess I must have been rubbing my own with my other hand. She started moaning and then we both had an orgasm! I will never forget that night.