Ok im 16 male and im from britain-wales I dont like 1 thing about myself Im a really shy guy around girls and I mean very shy but before christmas I met a girl on msn and somehow built myself up to meet her in town So I met her and she held my hand for ages but we hardly talked cause I was so shy anyway I ended up having my first kiss, hug with her and first girl to ever hold my hand to. She could feel me shaking all the time so thats how shy and nervous I am, after I walked her home and finally got home myself I was so chuffed, after first kiss I felt dizzy allnight until I went to sleep I was proud of myself. Until a week later she blocked me on msn and didnt pick the phone up to me cause"we didnt have anything in common" So even though I was that nervous/shy I finally had the guts to meet a girl and have first kiss with her to which I wanted to be special then she goes and does that so that dented me alot and I still think about it 24/7 and dont know what to do to make it better

i was on vacation and my gf was sick in the hotel room. I went to the hotel bar to drink and ended up meeting a girl and her 40 year old mother. we drank all night, and the mother and I ended up having sex on the beach. my relationship w my gf has been dwindling, and i didnt feel that bad about it afterwards. plus, I have been relegated to constant masturbation because my gf and I have sex very rarely (we used to be like rabbits)

Okay, here's my story. My freshman year of college I met this really sweet guy. We started dating, and things were going well. But, since this was my FRESHMAN year of college, I was not used to all the new freedoms. Or the partying. Or the drinking. One thing let to another, and I ended up cheating on him. I confessed shortly after because of the guilt I felt. We broke up. One year later, we started talking again. We started seeing each other again, and it seemed like we were going to get together again. But, again, things got in the way. And now we're barely even friends. I used to think that he liked me more than I actually liked him. But the more I see him getting hurt by other girls, the more I realize that I could be so much better for him than them. Am I crazy to think this way? I would hate to admit that I'm having feelings for him again. I think he does too, but I've hurt him so much in the past that he'd be afraid of starting things up again. What should I do? Just let it go?

When I was 10 or 11 years old, my mother was dating a man and him and his son lived with us. His son used to babyset us all the time. One night, he came into my room, and started saying my name. I ignored him, just for spight, and soon rgreted it later. The next thing I knew, he was raping me. I was too scared to move, or to do anything, I just layed ther, pretending to be asleep.I can't even count how many times he did this, it happend so often. I never told my mother, or my dad. I've only told about 4 people my whole life. I never wanted to tell anyone. I had a horrible habit over the past couple of years, of just driving people away from me. I am so introverted, and just can't stand to see peoples reactions to some of my experiences, esspecialy now. I'm so happy and in the best relationship of my life. I've been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now, and he tells me everything, all his secrets. And I cannot muster up the courage to tell him about this. I'm scared of his reaction.

Allright. 76% advise me to leave my gf. Any ideas on how to fix the situation? Decisions, decisions....

When I was 17 or 18 and my new girlfriends mom (13 years my senior) seduced me one night and the daughter was only in the next room. I left in the middle of the night. I never thought at the time the relationship with the mom would go anywhere and never discussed what happened with the daughter. At the time I was terrible shy had no close or good friends a mom who drank alot. My brother used to tease me to death. So my girlfriends mom became what I thought was a good friend for many years so I thought. I think she had a big influence on me, It's taking me many years to realize I really don't like her as a person or respect her, but I like her family. I told her how I feel many times, she's clueless as why I don't call or see her as often. Friends don't always last forever!

my fiance and I have always been adventurous and love doing it in forbidden places. 6 months or so ago we were walking past a local place of religious worship (i wont mention the religion) and we noticed that the front door keys had been left in the keyhole outside, so she snatched them and we carried on walking.... every weekend... at around 3am after a night of sweaty clubbing we now enter the premises, have sinful sex, and leave unnoticed. Its evil i know, but i know you readers do see the sexy of it. Or are we just twisted??

I love her...I know she loves me too..she has told me this so many times...but she is getting married to some one else..she cant breakup the marriage as lot of family members are involved in...n she doesnt wana hurt anyone...i agree to what she says..but i still hate the fact that she will b some one else's wife...I hate it so much... y i am so helpless..what shud i do...????????? plz comment :o(