I've been married for 10 years and have 2 kids. I am a 0full time college student. All of those college guys are so hot. WHAT THE HELL have I done. Going to Speech class turns me on because of this guy. I am happy with my marriage but my sex life suffers because my hubby works 60+ hours per week. I don't want to be unfaithful but damn these horomones.

I have been married almost 18 years and of those 18 years I have pretty well cheated on my husband for the whole duration of our marriage. I've actually been having an affair with just one man now for the last 10 years and right under my husbands nose. He's never had a thought or clue that I have cheated as my life is a very busy one and time isn't something I have much of between taking care of my children, working and spending time with my husband. Although I have found time to get some loving on the side because I feel like I am just not getting what I need emotionally, physically and mentally at home.

i went out to drink with some co-workers last. I know when people drink,they sometimes do stupid things.I control myself. Im a bit hard on myself,i'll admit.But when i wake up the next day,i get washed oveer with this guilt,like i did something wrong.whats wrong with me.this has been happening since college.Its as if when i do something fun,i consider it some sort of sin.help

I have had an unrequited love for many years. Once I had the courage to tell him and he did not return the sentiment. I can not seem to get over him. It has been almost 5 years since we spoke. I love him so much it hurts. I am now married to a very wonderful man. I just can't seem to let go of the past and am afraid one day my husband will find out.

I'm 24 and my girlfriend is 33. we're in love...but i was wondering...what do other people think about this? Are we going to be judged because she's with a younger guy or that i'm with an older girl?

when i was young (like 4 or 5) i was on top of a car playing tag and slid down and caught my bits on the window wiper and went to hospital and got stiched up (28 on my privaites) and now that im having sex and spending money on protection as it may be a waste of money if im infertille. should i go and see if im working propely and see if im still fertille so i dont have to worry when im having sex. every thing seems to eb working ok manualy and stuff but my main concern is if i can have babies or not.what would you do?

I have been living with my gf for five years now and our sex life is not good...I have found out that for the last year she has been hot for a man at her work. She admits to me that every morning when she gets up she thinks about him..When she buys new cloths or gets a hair cut she is thinking about him..She tells me when she masturbates she is thinking about him. The only time our sex is good is when she is thinking about him. The funny thing is that I really think she loves me and I love her. I have told her that she should go and sleep with this man and find out about her feeling for him. I don’t think she has yet. She goes to her work parties without me cus of him and she tells she gf’s that she about him. If she slept with him and it was just sex I would stay with her. Honestly, I get excited thinking about her getting her excited. As a man I understand there is a difference between love and lust....Anyway...I guess I am hoping to find someone to talk to about a this.please write

I just got married to my pregnant wife. And i'm scared. I love her to death, but she rarely shows me any affection. I know she truly loves me because she was wanting to get married before I ever wanted to. I have a great job that pays well, and I'm a good provider. I've always been the "nice guy". However as of late, all I can think about is how I want to cheat on her. I'm an attractive guy, and could find a woman to sleep with very easily. I've only been married for 2 months. I do not believe in divorce, and would never leave her and my child for the life of me, but I can't stop help feeling un-fulfilled. The sex and cuddling and all that jazz before marriage was phenomenal, but now it doesn't exist. Is this normal? I keep thinking about how "arranged" marriages in the old times somehow always worked out. Please COMMENT.