i'm 21 and have slept with 6 guys, only one of them (the 1st) was a long time boyfriend of mine. since him i haven't had a boyfriend in over 2 years. the latest 3 guys have pretty much been one night stands. without even realizing it i think i've become something of a slut.

I have never had a girlfriend before, I don't really intend to have any partners in my life. Although sometimes I feel so lonely. Women don't accept my sexual interests and I am not gay although sometimes I wish I was, it feels like men would be more accepting (maybe that's cause I don't have many female friends). Does anyone out there live their life alone? How do you curb your anxiety if you do pursue people who you know will turn you down? I always imagined a beautiful wedding and family but when I came of age my interests skewed from the norm and I am now basically a romantacist with no hope of romance. But then again, who really does have genuine romance?

I find myself here yet again, it's funny my life was so on track. I had plans, future, ideas. Now, nothing. It's funny how one person can just ruin your life. She didn't do it directly, but with her I had motivation to better myself to move towards something more. Now, I'm just like blah I'll just exist in the gray nothing. In addition I work out of my home so I'm pretty fortunate for that, but it's been about 4 weeks since I've left my house. I'm not ready. I go check my mail at night so no one is around and I get food delivered and anything else I need. I've been doing this since January of this year. On top of this terribly alone but can't muster the energy to go meet my friends. As for meeting someone in a romantic sense forget that, I'm an emotional train wreck at the moment. Though I miss the phone calls, the time spent together, and the romantic emails. Just feel alone, and afraid and it sucks. Oh well life goes on and I know there are others much worse off then I.

I'm in a relationship again. It's good. We're not in love, and it's just 'til I leave uni in a few months, but it's comfortable and pleasant. I like him. He treats me so well. He's a guy I've known for a couple of years - I couldn't stand him when I first met him, but we got to know each other and became friends, then fuck buddies, and then this. It still feels weird thinking of him as my boyfriend. Nice, though. My life is so full and frantic right now, but I think I'm doing okay. Finish uni in a couple of months, and then the rest of my life begins. It's pretty scary. Terrified of leaving all my friends, but really looking forward to starting afresh, too.

Okay, I have to admit, it was nice having Nick around more. Not that I was leading him on, but even after the big relationship drama and how we're 'just friends', I liked having him be single around me, when we could cuddle still and hang out and I could sit on his knees while I was writing without having to worry. I have no right to be jealous, but when I see how laura looks at him, I still feel a bit possesive, even if I say it's totally okay for him to go out with someone else.

Hi I know some gurl that knows these 2 people but she cant figure out if there dating each other. Like they go to lots of places together and there was also a rumour of them to get married but they never admitt there going out. They only say there friends. But it looks like its more. My friend really wants to know if there not admitting there relationship then they might just be friends or friends with benefits? Pleaze anyone Comment Thank You

You said you were dropping me because your friends and family don't approve. Did you expect and require their approval before we became involved? Amazing!. You wade through that character pool you're not going to get your ankles wet. Your colleague is coming from Europe to pick up some work stuff. What, you wouldn't just ship it? If you have to explain something to him, why not just wait until you're back there in 2 weeks? He's going to fix your computer. Wouldn't it be cheaper just to have it fixed here? If there's confidential business info on it why not just Fedex it back for repair? I've discussed your dropping me so abruptly with friends as I searched for some understanding. They feel it's someone else. This fits within the principle of Occam's Razor. I don't want to beleive that ... altho it hardly matters now.

I have herpes. I've had it since 1994. In 1996, I let my girlfriend go down on me. She got herpes on her lower lip. She thought it was a cold sore. I let her think that. I never told her that I was infected. I was in a lesbian relationship.