k so last night i had unprotected sex with my bf. he pulled out before cumming. atleast i hope it was before. he's worried that i may be pregnant or something and he had a dream about it even. i know it was stupid but it just happened. from now on i'm keeping a box of condoms in my car, purse, room, his room, anywhere i can to not let it happen again. i'm not as worried as he is, but just wanted to get it off my chest. no one knows that we're even sleeping together, so this would be my outlet for both my possible pregnancy, and the sex.

Earlier I got on my boyfriends instant messenger, not to spy or anything he was right there telling me what to say. I spoke to his friend, then I told him it wasn't my boyfriend he was talking to. The guy says, wtf? since when did this happen? Haven't you been screwing him over every few months? Why is he still with you? you seem like a horrible person. And that was it. I didn't know why he said that or what my boyfriend had told him to make him think that. My boyfriend has a problem of telling all of his friends everything when we get in a fight. so it could have come from that. i was so upset i started to cry and then i had to ask my boyfriend why he wasn't sticking up for me and he still didn't do it. he didn't even get angry at this guy. the man who says he would die for me could not even stand up to someone who hurt me so much that i cried about it. I'm so angry right now i can't sleep, can't think about anything else. Probably just being overly emotional but it's how i feel

i tryed to tell this guy i liked him 2day, but i totslly bottled it, i need some help with this, i jus want to go up to him and whisper in his ear, fancy a quickie at lunch, but i know how he wud take it, do men like that???

i've had a loving boyfriend for over a year (about 17 months now) and don't get me wrong i love him more than anyone, but i have a very strong urge to fool around with other people. i find friends i've had for many years attractive and i can't help finding it fun to flirt and i wonder what it would be like to push that relationship further, even though i have a wonderful boyfriend

i have a crush on you, and it is killing me.

This is pretty hard for me to admit, even when typing...but here goes. I am a 16 year old straight male, but once every couple of nights I go into chat rooms and pretend to be a girl. Why? Because I get very horny and what turns me on is guys saying they will have sex with me. I don't know why this turns me on because i KNOW i'm not gay. I would never seriously consider EVER having sex with a guy in real life...ever. And I REALLY like a few girls. I just don't know what to do. I am afraid what will happen if I tell anyone. It's a huge burden on my back. I wish I could stop...I really do and I tell myself to stop and feel like a piece of shit after every time i do this...but when i feel horny again it's like i'm a whole different person. I am afraid this could effect my future. I don't want girls to reject me forever...I want to be normal...I want to be happy...I want to stop doing what i'm doing...it makes me feel horrible inside afterwards and full of shame. Please help.

i've been seeing this guy, alfredo, for a couple of weeks, we're not an official couple yet but it seems that thats where he wants to take it. i'm not so sure what i want. i really like alfredo but there's this other guy, miguel, who loves me (he tells me every time we talk) and i'm starting to like him as well. my ex-boyfriend also came into the picture again and we're supposed to see each other this wednesday. i dont know what my ex wants but i've missed him and i really want to see him so i agreed. i'm SO confused about this and i know at some point i'm going to have to make a decision...but i just dont know!!

I'm falling for my ex. He's so handsome and gorgeous. We went out years ago and he didn't care one iota for me, but now he's back in my life and I see him weekly. He always has a girl (or two) on his arm. He's a ladies' man and he knows it. I like to think of myself as an intelligent person. So why am I letting my loneliness cloud my common sense?