My spouse has struggled with cancer for more than three years now. Ours was probably not a marriagie made in heaven, but strangely I have enjoyed the last three years caring for her and I'm a better person/mate than before. BUT, I have been playing on the net looking for potential friends when my spouse passes. At my age I just don't have time to play buy the accepted rules even though I want to show respect and act in a dignified manner. I admit that I probably would not get involved with a woman even near my age. I act young, think young and believe I'm much younger according to my activities. I admit I'll be looking for a Latin women as I speak quite good Spanish and believe Latins may be better partners for a number of reasons.

So I met this girl online...she was a pretty nice person, cute ok personality, etc... So i meet up with her, her boyfriend(who she was dumping that night) and her best friend. So while she was distracted with her soon to be ex, i found myself infatuated with her best friend! Our personalities clicked, she was gorgeous, had an amazing sense of humor as well as just amazing me all together. So basically I feel bad because I led girl A on, but its not like I had the intentions of dating her friend..it just kinda happened...and now Im confused as to what to tell girl A, who is now single and liking me. (fyi Her bestfriend felt the same towards me)

It's been a while since I've vented - I have a friend who I don't think I like very much anymore. We've been friends for years and were very close until her boyfriend got out of jail. He's 30+ yrs old and a LOSER. No job, no place to live, no car, no legal anything, etc. She let him trample all over her for about 8 months until he was arrested again. During that time, I was trying to be a good friend by telling her she deserved better, etc. She got very defensive and talked bad about me, my family, my relationship, my job- anything she could think of. Long story short, she had the b@lls to try to tell me that she knows what life is about when she is 30+ years old and still lives with her mother (never has moved out & paid her own rent, etc) It really pi$$ed me off. Not to mention, she's back doing meth and has managed to find yet another loser to shack up with. It's frustration trying to get it through her head that she needs to grow the fvck up! Thanks for letting me vent

My husband was out of town for a few weeks. During this time, I got to be close with one of my employees... a guy. We had been attracted to each other for a while, just never admitted it to each other. Long story short, I've been doing him for the past few weeks. My husband is home now, and I have to admit that I have no plans to stop --- just be patient and wait for good opportunities to come along. The kicker here is that the employee and I are really good friends, too, and my husband has met him and likes him. I should note that I am not at all unhappy in my marriage -- quite the opposite, actually.

when i was young i was told by my parents that life will get better and to keep my chin up. now that i only have a little longer to live i look back on my life and realized that they were right. sometimes it takes a group of doctors to tell you that your life is over in order for you to begin living. don't make the same mistake i did. live now when you are healthy enough to do it. sometimes life will be rocky but keep going and live each day to the fullest. girls (or guys for you ladies) will come and go. friends will disappear. loved ones will hurt you. but do everything you can be the person you know you are.... i promise life will get better... just keep your chin up

i came to the conclusion that its not love its lust

you were another one of the hopeless crushes i get so often, and i never muster up the balls to be able to tell you whenever we're on the phone together. it's obvious that you would just use me if we ever -did- go out, but you said you wanted a girl that you found attractive and i'm obviously taking it as not me. whenever the phone rings, i'm hoping its you that calls. it never is. whenever we pass each other in the hall, i try to make it seem like i don't even see you, but i'm really hoping that you notice me there. every time i told you that you were 'weird', i secretly meant you were amazing. i'd keep on going with this, but i think i'm going to get some sex with a college boy at that party friday tonight to forget all about you. (by the way, your friends are a bunch of retards, especially that one with the hat and the bags under his eyes. he always looks at me funny when he goes to his locker.)

I am in love with a 16 year old boy, and I am 22. I am scared sh*tless of this. I know the age thing is not good, but it is only a 6 year diffrence when you look at it. We met online and I have just fallen in love with his personality and want to get to know him better. I am not interested in sex with him, but I just want to be ther for him and hold him in my arms and cuddle. He also freely admits that he loves me despite all my obvious faults and lack of stelar looks. I am just soo worried about the age thing. I love hm soo much, I have never felt this way about a person before. I just don't know what to do. Should I start to distance myself from him or should I just let things take it's corse and see what happens? He lives in Canada and I am from the States... and we are both gay males. What should I do?