About six months ago I moved to a new city for a year long continuing ed course. I met a man over an online dating site about a decade older than me. At the time I thought it would just be a fun fling. He's wealthy, he's funny, the sex is great, and he treats me very well. For some weird reason I made up all these STUPID lies about myself so he would like me more. I told him I was ONE (ONLY ONE) year older than I really am, that I travelled to all these different countries, that I went to college, ect. And now...now we're TOTALLY IN LOVE. I'm a very proud person and it's hard for me to confess to a lie. I've met his family and I LOVE THEM. He's never met my family due to my lies. I know he will propose in the next six months...so my question is... Do I confess ALL MY STUPID lies and see if he still loves me or not or do I leave this city as soon as I'm done with school? I'm afraid that if I leave I will lose the man of my dreams...and more importantly...MY SOULMATE.

We were both virgins when me and my boyfriend started going out, but about 6 months into the relationship, I had sex with another guy to get him out of his depression. It's almost a constant thing now, but my friend doesn't know that every time I pull him away from suicide, I push myself towards it. My boyfriend still thinks I'm a virgin. I hate myself for doing this to him, but I'll do it again tomorrow.

This last December, when your ex treated you like shit, you broke up with me. Out of stress/confussion, you blamed me for what happened. I prayed for you. Not to have you back, but that you would find happiness and peace. I will pray for you again now. I love you LM.

my friend recently tried to comit suicide and i got caught up in the middle and now i am not sure i can face her. as i feel it may be my fault or i may do somthing or say somthing to do it again. i feel i want to get out of our friendship however i care about her alot and think she may try again as most her friends have stopped talking to her and if i do to, she might try again. i dont know what to do. please help!

I'm still in love with my ex-boyfriend. He and I broke up recently (I broke up with him so he wouldn't get hurt) and then a few days later I found out he was with someone new. I tried to forget him and move on... but I can't. I just can't. I think I even subconciously tried to break them up... but now they're together and I think it's going to stay. The other night I had a dream about him and it's only getting worse and worse. I just wish there was something I could do to stop all this. The worst part of it is that he's my best friend and I want him to be happy, but I don't think this guy can make him happy. Maybe I'm just jealous, I don't really know... I just know that I feel guilty and that I want to let him go. I just can't.

i used to honestly wish the best for you despite the insurmountable pain you've caused. I thought you were ignorant of the trail of destruction in your wake. When you acknowledged your wrongs, I was more then happy to forgive you; to forget the past; to move on, move forward. ... and then you repeated yourself. I used to only wish the best for you. I thought you were naive. I was naive. Now, I only wish you find a personal hell that is at least 1/10th of mine.

I was at a party and met a guy. He seemed perfect, just my type. So after a couple of drinks I invited him back to my place; something I thought I'd never do. Upon reaching my bedroom he revealed that he was a virgin. I didn't know if I wanted that responsibility but after messing around a little while I wanted him. During foreplay I found out that he was flaccid. Something I refer to as 'whiskey dick'. He had no idea though since he hadn't any sexual experience. So I stopped and didn't tell him why.

I hate my inlaws,I hate my husband,he is a controlling jerk.He pretends to be husband of the year around his family.I dont have a mom or siblings,I pretend that it doesnt bother me.The pain is unbearable. I have recently caught a married man staring at me,even peeking around corners at me Then he looks away when i look up,he thinks I dont see him. I hope he makes a move.I really like this guy.I have spoken to him.But he just keeps staring.Go figure.i cant help but see him as the light at the end of the tunnel.I would leave my husband in a heartbeat for this man.