I'm in love with someone other than my husband. I've also done things with him that shouldn't have happened but did. I'm fixing things with my husband but still can't get the other man out of my mind. I just want the past to be in the past but don't know how to let go. Any advice?

I've been married 24 years but I've never been so lonely in my whole life. I spend every waking minute dreaming about someone else's wife but I can never tell her I love her. Now to top it off, I'm losing my job after 28 years. I've never been so depressed and think of ending it all every day. I've gained almost ten pounds instead of trying to lose the 50 I need to lose. My life sucks and I wish my mother had never chosen to have me in the first place. I hate myself.

when i was three years old i was molested by an older neighbor boy. i told my parents at the time and they took me to a doctor to make sure i was okay, but i havent talked to anyone since then. im in a psychology course right now and we are learning about children who have been molested or sexually abuse. recently i have been wondering if being molested is the reason behind me having a lot of one night stands. i've been with 12 different guys, only once and never had feelings for any of them. i dont enjoy the sex, and the next day i always wonder why i did what i did. i also have never been in a serious relationship with a guy, but i have had the chance with many very nice guys and i am a pretty girl. i dont know if this is just an excuse or maybe a deeper problem that i need help with...

I am 14 years old and i think that i am in love,but any ways we first met when me and my best friend snuck out to go to her boyfriends house and we got drunk and we were smoking .i hooked up with this weird dude .but their was also a way hotter guy that i liked.but he went up stairs to sleep when he came down i was swimming in tha pool and then every time the guy tried to hook up with me i pulled away.when we had to leave my fiend told the other guy that i liked him and he said that he liked me to.we went back the next day because he wanted to see me.about a week l8ter we were goin out he dumped me after 5 days and i realised that i still liked him for a long time after that, on the chritmas holidays we hooked up and we had sex and i liked him alot after that we started going out again and we never seen each other so i dumped him and man do i still love him ive asked my best friend to ask him if hed ever get back together with me.my confession i have never told any one .

today my boyfriend asked me if i was sure no one hurt me as a child. i told him i was sure, but i'm worried because i'm not sure. infact, i'm pretty positive i outright lied to him today. i dont' know what to do.

i have this problem where i have been puking once or twice a day. its been like this for 1 and a half months and i dont know what to do. i've been to the doctors several times and even tried going to a different doctor but all my tests results are normal. i've only got sick at school once, but i've gone to all my classes. its getting really hard because i have no energy to even walk around campus. being sick is really depressing, i cry everyday. if it doesnt get better soon im afraid i will do something stupid, bc i have had those thoughts before. oh... and im not pregnant, thats what everyone asks me. any advice would be GREATLY appreciated

I feel so sick right now, I just carved a guys name into my arm and I found out he loves me like a sister and friend, it makes me want to slit my wrists and bleed to death on the floor, I really loved him, I mean the kind of love were you would die for them if you had to chose. I hope i'll be able to face him again.......

I've just got my first boyfriend, well, first serious one, and I'm 16. We've been friends since around Junior High, and I really like him. The problem is, I'm way too scared to go far with him, or even have him touch me at all. I want to do everything with him, sex and all that, because I really think he's "the one" but...I just can't seem to get over my fear of being well, touched.