I make a habit of urinating in sinks everywhere i go...sometimes even at my moms house and friends houses. Always at restaurants, hotels, offices, my work, etc.... Sometimes i just take a whizz right onto the floor than risk contamination. I think it's more sanitary than using a strange toilet. I fear than germs could travel up my stream or urine and infect me.

I reallt like this guy that I work with. I am unsure of his feelings for me... But my best friend (who doesn't know I like him and is way prettier than I am) keeps flirting with him. I KNOW she would never actually date him or even give him the time of day. But I am afraid he might be beginning to like her. I am not the jealous type but it still hurts.... but I guess I should be used to it. I will just have to pick up the leftover pieces afterward and try to be a good friend to him. That's the life of an ugly girl.

I was so desperate for a family, with my then boyfriend that I came off the pill unknown to him and got pregnant. I have never admitted this to anyone. He was angry but decided to support me all the same. His parents strongly opposed our eventual marriage but I got my way in the end. 7yrs married, our daughter is nearly 9yrs. The irony is we have no sex life. Over the years my husband has become impotent. Despite my sexual frustration and desire to have more children. I try to resolve that this is penance for my sins.

Aged 2yrs my both parents went to USA, leaving me to grow up in a very abusive home with a family friend.Both lived thier lives, ignoring the fact that I existed. My father supported his other children of another marriage. I struggled to get support of any type from him. While at college, I had to continously beg for his help and he would use every excuse to avoid me or give the min. financial support possible. In my early 20's I got my first opportunity visit my father (a selfemployed bakery owner). During this visit, I started snooping around his home and found US$500 cash. On my second I funded my wedding and paid off debt with a further US$27000 I found stashed in different places in his home. I now know where to look, I think they have missed the cash, I dont think he has ever suspected me but there is so much of it, he and his wife have many visitors and are unable to determine at what point it was taken. Todate my total theft is about US$60000. Am I bad? I want to stop!

I have bonded with one of my teachers at night school. He's my age, really funny, and very nice. He gets me. I'm in love with this guy, which is a real problem because he's married. I can't stop thinking about him and it's driving me nuts.

Hello Young teens. I Am the counselor that really wants to help. Instead of hurting yourself or what ever your thinking that could harm you. Don't, stop think and ask yourself, do I have anyone that needs me more then anything in there life right now? Do I have a person that I really want to see again? Do have have a crush on another person that i could not live without? Do I have family near by? Do I have anything at ALL in my life that I look forward to seeing, eating, watching, hugging???? Anything at all? Then if you say no to all of these You need to write to me. I am free. Thanks a Bunch, Miss Understood

The girl who was my best friend for 8 years is now seeing my ex. We only broke up 2 months ago and I miss him so much it hurts. I still love him and always will. at the moment I simply cant see the point in living - I wish it would all end xxxxx

when i'm with this guy, i feel amazing...me and him get along really well and we are both very attracted to one another. His ex just keeps getting in the way though...they haven't been broken up for very long, but she keeps trying to control him. She even had the nerve to call me and to tell me that i need to stop calling him. wtf... its really pissing me off cause it makes him reluctant to be with me... when i'm with him i just want to kiss him and tell him i love him....he knows i love him, but he doesn't know that everytime i'm around him i just want to kiss him.... I don't want to loose the relationship that we already have and i don't know what kissing him would do