Ok I met this amazing guy online. We talked on the phone and I felt myself really falling for him. There was just one problem - I didn't know what he looked like. So of course I made sure not to commit before we met. We met today and I am not physically attracted to him. We had an argument about this before and he called me shallow for counting physical beauty. Ok, let me just say I do not put ALL the emphasis on looks. Though I will not be seeing him again because he completely turns me off. Everytime he comes close, I move away as if repelled. He's telling me that physical beauty should not matter - only inner. And that because I let it matter, I am shallow. I do not think of myself as shallow. But I guess I am if I won't date a guy because of how he looks. He doesn't know how I feel and I didn't have the heart to tell him so I will make up a lie about another guy to let him down easier. Do you think I'm shallow for not dating someone that I find physically revolting?

I'm a 16 year old virgin, for the past 2 years or so I've gotten soo close to meeting up with men from the internet to lose it, its like something that hangs over me. I really want to lose my virginity, and I've organised several meetings with different guys but in the end I just pull out of it because I'm ashamed of myself. But it makes me feel so uncomfortable when everyone is talking about it. And its not like I'm extremely ugly either, I'm just your average looking girl. Its just that nobody wants me.

The first time in my life I EVER opened my heart up and cared for a person- I get crushed. I cannot be something i'm not and cover up my feelings and pretend not to like you. I can't believe how selfish you are- Now I remeber why I hate people so much...

I thought he loved me and I was willing to give up my whole future for him. I have always been very career driven and yet I was ready to throw it all away for him.

I've been in a steady relationship for about 4 years and I love him with all my heart. We have a child together and as of right I am the happiest I've been in a long time. I feel like my life is finally coming together, but the thing is I find myself constantly thinking of someone from my past that I really cared about. To this day, when I see this person, my heart skips and I get all tongue-tied. I don't think we would ever have another go but I just can't stop thinking about him. So what should I do?

I am addicted to sex... I don't know what to do to stop. I have sex with friends, strangers, and prostitutes. lately I've been really cought up in work so it has only been prostitutes, sometimes 2 per week. I only see clean girls mainly high priced ones and always use protection... How can I stop!!!!!!

OK! I have a friend, Amy, and her brother is totally hot. I asked her if I could ask him out, and she said no, because that's part fo the girls rules of friendships. One day he told me he wanted to make out with me and fuck me, and I was so happy. One night I was spending the night at her house, and while she was sleeping, I snuck into his room and fucked him. He said that I was very good at it, and that we won't tell amy. But the next day at school (I was in 8th grade, he was in 9th) he told amy, and amy got so mad that she hated me for like, 2 months. When we were friends again, I was feeling weird on and off. I thought I might be pregnant, so i took four pregnacy tests. I was pregnant. But threw the whole thing, he stood by me. We got married, had the baby, and now we are average people. He finished high school and got a college degree, while he was wroking at a restaurant. But safe sex is always important, so this motto is: SAFE SEX ALWAYS, AND DON'T LIE TO YOUR FRIENDS!

i hate every single one of my best frends