I have alot of friends and i am pretty popular at my school and not terrible looking. But for some reason even the friends i have been with for a very long time i dont feel very close to and alot of times i find my self feeling very alone no matter how many friends i am talking to our hanging out with. I dont know what the problem is. And on the subject of girls for some reason i dont even want to start a relationship becuase i just know that eventually it will end and i will be alone again.

i'm in love with a guy i work with he has no idea he makes me feel incredible

About a year ago, I moved to a new city and started a few franchise businesses. At this point in time I hate it. I hate everything about it and I absolutely despise the city where I now live. I just had to get it off my chest before my head explodes. Thanx.

ok new problem,i have just started to talk and hang about with this girl and i cant stop thinking about her.i have only seen her 3 times but already i cant stop.it dosent seem like a big problem but i already have a girl friend and i love her so much.what should i do?help me out all comments and letters welcome,thanks

i'm a girl and i've just received my first kiss. I don't know how it felt, either i'm happy or i am not. This guy that kissed me, well, i do not so love him. He said to me he loves me and i just reply that i love him too because i don't have the heart to break his heart. He is soo nice to me and all i want to do is to be nice with him. But i've to admit that i like his warm kiss. It's nice and soft. But it's not a joy to me when thinking that i lie to him that i love him. Or maybe i will love him but it is not the time. someday, who might knows.

I'm a gay and 16. The other day at my friends house me and two other guys slept in the same bed (not a problem) but I swear my two 'straight' friends were getting it on. The only thing is is when I confronted one of them he denied it. The thing is is we are all a very liberal group of people and the guy I asked is a trustworthy person so it doesnt make sense at all that he'd lie, however closeted or whatever he was. Its scary as I'm thinking I might have had a slight psychotic episode or something and imagined it, though, I am CERTAIN ir was real. Its confusing as theres always a chance he could be lying but I could also just be fucked in the head which I am a tiny bit anyway. So now I'm worried about my mental health and also now whether I'd have a chance with one of the guys who I really have the hots for.

i'm in love with my best friend of the same sex. i've never been attracted to someone of the same sex and i'm currently in a heterosexual relationship. it gives me a sharp pain in my heart whenever i think about my friend. however, i'm so afraid to tell her, even though she's an admitted bisexual. every time i work up the courage to tell her, she starts a relationship, and i don't want to mess that up for her. i'm afraid if i tell her she'll hate me and we can never have the same friendship. i love her so much and value her friendship but my heart is breaking everyday....it just keeps getting worse.

my parents are going to divorce, something that's been dragged on for quite a while. mum has been pleading me to help her get dad back, but dad seems pretty much apathetic towards it all. i failed uni. still got supps though. and when i step into a relationship with one of my closest friends - an amazing guy - i just had to get into what seems to be a cold war over something so insignificant and silly. yet i feel so apathetic towards almost everything that i don't seem to want to be the one to break the silence, or help mum out, or study for my supps. feels like i'm walking further away from everything, God, life, family, friends, bf, study.... and no i'm not being suicidal or anything, but i just seem to have lost my direction in life. so much about me has changed from what i was a year ago. sometimes i feel all twisted up and hollow inside, sometimes i feel pain, or am apathetic, or frustrated, or even a mix of it all if that's possible. what to do...?