Hi, I need help! 5 years ago my wife to be left me, we had a 3 year old son together and I took the breakup real bad. I started using drugs and became suicidal then stopped seeing my son. Things did get bettter for me and for the last 12 months i have been spending time with my ex and son, it has been great. However I have feelings for her that are not returned. I'm getting quit upset thinking about what I have lost and what I am missing out on. It seems i have no real friends that i can talk to. My man fear is slipping back to wear i used to be and losing what i have gained both material, mentally and most importantly with my son. Please leave a comment or message any feedback will be helpful.

I was sexually abused as a child, from age 4 to 15. My oldest brother would hold me down and forcibly have sex with me. I blamed and hated myself and God, for what I had to go through. I was terrified every day growing up because I did not know what else he would do to me or force me to do to him, he would come into my bedroom at night or find me whenever he knew I was alone. One day I threatened to tell and he told me if I did, he would hurt me more or kill me. I was a coward and I dont think I could ever forgive myself. I recently had several suicide thoughts and attempts, I tried starving myself and OD on pills. A good friend of mine got me to quit that, so now I am trying to move on with my life. But I still hurt and get depressed constantly. I tried going to church and talk to God, but its hard because I feel I do not deserve HIS love or HIS forgiveness. I dont know what to do.

My ex-girlfriend lives with her parents and her elderly grandmother. Without going in to all the details let's just say that she felt burdened by her gandmother and did not want her around. One night she admitted to me that she has thought about pushing her grandmother down the stairs. Having a somewhat dark since of humor, I laughed it off and never thought about it again. That was a year ago and we have since gone our separate ways. Through a mutual friend I heard that she was not doing to well because she had come home to find her grandmother dead lying at the bottom of the stairs. It's not so much what she said that makes me suspicious, it's her grief. She is the most cold-hearted person I know, and I know more than my share of slezebags. I think she killed her grandmother. Should I tell someone?

I think my boyfriend cheated on me and I don't know what to do. I waant want to ask him but what if he says yes he did ????

I used to be in a relationship with this guy and I had really strong feelings for him, he and I didnt quite work out but we always stayed really close, he was seeing someone else and we both still had feelings for each other. I came from a different city and moved back home because I felt it was time to go back. He and I used to always phone each other or speak via the internet and generally things would get a little heated, everytime I went to visit he and I would

I am so messed up. I am an impulsive person, but when it comes to to dealing with love I clam up. I get too scarred to admit what I feel. I had a girlfriend years ago that I told everything to. When we broke up she told everyone she knew about the things I did. Like how I pushed drugs to get cash. Or how I once lived on the streets because I couldn't deal with life at home. Or how I almost killed myself because I was so down. THERE I SAID IT. FINALY. But now I found someone I love. And yes I have told her how I feel, I new I would regret it if I didn't say anything. But although we have decided to take things slow and see where things lead us, I need to know, should I tell her of my past? Or should I just keep it silent? Does she need to know, or can ignorance be bliss? For her and me.

my ex-bf ripped my heart out and crushed it when he broke up with me...and i still love him...he's coming back from the navy soon and i would dump my bf now in an instant if he wanted to get back with me. but i know he would just kill me again.

I use to be really popular then i got in a fight with and now ex friend and everyone took her side (but didnt even hear mine) now all my supposed frineds talk behind my back and call me really horrible things. I have become really lonely without them and have turned to hooking up with guys to make me feel wanted