I am a bad mom and I know it.

i'm in love with a guy that solely wants me for my body. when we first started hooking up it was all in good fun and he was cheating on his gf with me. i didn't have feelings for him then besides the physical either. however, as time progressed, i've started to fall for him. he doesn't know this, but i also know that he only wants me for sex and i know i deserve more, but i can't get over him. i simply don't want anyone else but him and it's gotten so bad that i compare myself to every girl that he talks to and/or dates. am i not pretty enough? am i not skinny enough? am i not smart enough? the best would be for me to forget and move on right? but damn, it hurts so much. should i even bother saying anything to him about how i feel although i am 110% positive that he won't give a shit.

cant stand it anymore! i work with someone that i really would like to ----!i cant sleep because i dream about him all the time...cant stop it! he wont get out of my head....how do i get him in my bed?????????!!!!!!!! without the whole workplace running us thru the grapevine????????/!!!!!!!!!!!we work together in the same section of a large workplace...sometimes i think hes interested but then he seems not to be? im kind of shy and quiet and not very brave so i wont be pouncing on him...but id like to. dont know what to do...if i was brave enuf to do anything. thanks for listening

I cheated at least 20 times on my boyfriend of 10 years who shares children with me.

It's not so much the pointlessness of living that bothers me, but the lack of something to do. I live in a world of dusty books, academic discussion, and contented intellectuals. I'm tired of reading and writing for no purpose other than the self-perpetuation of my field. It's absurd! I'm immensely curious and love learning, but I was never happier than when I spent my time working with my hands, when I had tangible goals and could look forward to a sense of accomplishment at the end of the day. Now I feel trapped in a lonely, desperate, ridiculous world. I think about quitting daily -- perhaps to become a traveling language teacher, or to join an aid organization. I want to meet real people; I want something to do. But I would disappoint so many people, my parents, the professors who have helped me, if I quit now. The thought of it is almost unbearable. So for now I'm still plodding along.

I haven't had sex in nearly two years. Here I am at the absolute peak of my sexual prime and I'm not getting any. Once I got past the first six months it's like I switched into this a-sexual non-entity that has completely lost touch with that side of myself, ie. how to feel like a woman in that way. It's strange. Mostly I get by without thinking about it at all, but there are those few times when I feel like I could burst for the need to be touched. I know if I wanted to that I could just go out and have sex with someone. Been there, done that, over it!! Also, I know that once I finally get some sex again that I am going to want it all the time, so a one night stand would just make things worse. It's a stubbornness that I'm not going to give in until someone comes along who is desperate to have me (again and again) and it's someone I actually want back. Where are you????!!!!!

when I was a freshman, my first partner broke up with me. I was on the bound and slept with this guy I barely knew and didn't even really like. I haven't told my current boyfriend or anyone else for that matter. A few people know because the guy told them (after we swore not to), but I deny it. On top of all of that, what we did was illegal. He was 19 and I was 14.

I'm married with a two year old boy, and having a torrid affair with another woman in another state. I feel out of control. Do I leave my wife for this woman, do I keep doing things on the sly and hope to get away with it or do I just slink back to a marriage that has no passion anymore? I'm worried, of course, about what that would do to my son if I left, and I'd miss him like crazy, too. But I just have this overpowering urge to be with this woman and start fresh. HELP!!!!!!!!!!