I've messed up big time. I've cheated on my girlfriend more times than i can count, and she only knows of 3 times. In fact not too long ago I cheated on her again. I lost my virginity to a girl that I could care less about. I've been dating my girlfriend for about a year. I love her but I tend to make bad decisions with the relationship. I cant control my horomones. I've cheated with a girl 4 years younger than me... I was 17 she was 13. The girl is my older brother's best friend's little sister. Besides being a guy, I don't know what my problem is. I don't reall have anyone to hang out with, so could it be a possiblilty that i'm trying to replace my lack of friends with physical side-bar relationships? I cry alot, and I write poetry about my feeling lonely. I feel like if I keep on fooling around on the side I'll feel more empty, but sex and fooling around is the only thing that makes me happy, since no one really talks to me. i feel like earth would be better off without me

So, I finally admitted to Jack how I feel about him.. and he said he had NO idea about it.. and that it was great and all.. but then dropped it.. so i'm assuming he doesn't have feelings for me... but then we continued to flirt over text messages and stuff and he was saying stuff like "oh, I'm ganna come pick you up from the party so we can hang out and stuff" and just a bunch of other stuff.. it was kind of weird cuz we've never really flirted before until after i told him how I felt.. so I'm not sure how he feels about me.. I dont want to be like "Jack, do you have feelings for me or not" but I also want to know..I REALLY care about him.. in a way i haven't felt for anyone even the boyfriend i had for almost 2 and 1/2 years that I thought I was in love with... I think I am in Love with Jack... ugh.. ok i'm done admitting...

i have been married for 18 years and caught my husbanb cheating several times i took him back he cheat again then i left him met a nice guy then my husband wanted to come back have two kids and i took him back again well never realy stop seeing other guy i have feeling for them both but i think im in love with other guy have been seeing him once in awhile no sex just good friends and i feel that he might be the one only thing is my husband has this new look on life where he a family man now and i feel i should give him a chance but i cant let go of the other guy we go weeks without talking to each other then one of us breaks down and call the other well i mis him and i wish i could just let go of my husband but i fought so hard for him to change now that he home all the time and everything about the kids and he try to do right but i dont know i just feel like he may have did so many bad things in the past now i cant forget the things and this other guy and i have been friends for 8 yrs

I truely like men, but I would like to experiment alittle with another women. I have very vivid fantasies about women. Is this strange?

I am new in town and the other night I went to a bar near my house. I thought it was a little odd there were no men in the whole place. One of the women there came over to me and touched my Breast. I am asshamed to admit that I liked it and am considering going there again.

I'm cant make up my mind. i cant make a decisioun. It's not about big things, it's about small thing , i'm always asking everybody what should i do... my boyfriend cant stand me cause of that...i dont have self confident...dont tell me to try not to be like this..cause i simply cant..if u can pls help me with some exercises or smth... i dont know what shall i do... everything goes wrong...

I'm 14 years old and pretty sure I'm a lesbian. At summer camp this year I fell head over heels for one ofr the program directors... I think she might be gay herself but it doesnt matter cause she's old enough to be my mom! I think she was on to me... I sort of followed her around. She's really sweet and kind and understanding... she was a great friend to me. I might come out ot her by e-mail. I don't like her that way anymore but I think she'd be good to talk to.

Hay, I am in a new school and i live next to this kid well he has been talking shit about me to this girl. She came up and asked me what my name was. And bla bla etc. Then she told me what he has been saying about me. Well i really don't know what to do. He has been telling people i am a slut-etc. If i tell a staff that would probally be saying that i'm a nark. Should i tell him to stop my self. Becuse if i tell an adult to tell him then he is gonna tell the girl that told me he was talking shit about me that i told and that i am a nark. Would you want every one in your new school to think your a slut. I just started here. And i don't want a bad rep.. I knew this guy for sometime now. there has been some problems between us but why would he do this. Please help -Helpful