I have been married for 13yrs, I have never cheated on my husband (though there were times i thought about it). I found out he cheated on me, with a family member. I felt sick to my stomach and still do to this day about it. He said they didn't have sex but he lied to me about it (when i went through his email and cell phone and found messages left on his voice mail) when i confronted him with the proof I had found. It was the worst feeling i could ever had. I left him, and its been going good, he now wants me back. He wants to go to counseling with me he thinks our marriage could work out. I really love him but he hurt me badly. I think for my sake i'm going to let him go.

OMG!!!!!!!!! I got my girlfreind pregnant!!!!!!!!!! Im screwed over!!!!!!!

i talk a good talk. talk about staying strong through the bad times, talk about living a good life. but when it comes down to my own life, im such a hypocrite. i know the theory behind being happy but im too much of a coward to do the things i want. i fear change. now something huge has happened to me and it seems as if everything is dark. all light as been extinguished forever. i want to kill myself.

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years and we have a great relationship. Our only problem is his family! They hate me and have done everything to break us apart.

I met this girl that I have been hanging out with maybe once a week if I am lucky and all we do is have sex when we get together. At first this seemed like a good deal- sex with no relationship... But lately I feel like a Idiot because I call her to see what she is doing and sometimes she doesn't call me back for weeks and it kind of pisses me off. I wish that I could quit calling her back when she calls. I know that she told me that all she was looking for is "just sex" when this all started, but I have started to have feeling for her and now I really don't know what to do. All I do is think about her.

I think i may be bi-sexual, but i don't know whether i should be honest with my freinds and family, or to just live my life without telling them, they won't have to know.

I admit that even though I'm happily married I'm still attracted to my ex-wife. We didn't see each other for 18 years and then ran into each other, we have since struck up a friendship often meeting for coffee. Neither of our spouses have a clue and both are very jeolous. I want to sleep with her but I don't know how she feels. She definetly teases me with emails (Daily) Is it still cheating if you used to be married to each other?

I'm in a unique, but puzzling, relationship. I've known this lady for 8 years, we work together at the same company and I've even been her boss for some of those years. We are both in long term committed relationships. At first we hated each others guts but we have evolved into extremely close friends, closer than we should be. Over the years we've both tested our boundaries but we've never cheated with each other on our respective spouses. We've all begun to socialize together as well. I've tried to push her back a bit a few times but she is tenacious and won't let go. So I've started pulling her closer and it is getting weird.