i want to tell people how hard it is to admit to other people about your past. i was abused since i was a toddler and it has only just stopped. teloing someone might help but it doesn't help everyone. if i told my family that i was abused and by who... they would think i was dirty and send me packing and so would my friends. well... that's what i think anyway and this is what goes through every victims mind when they plan on telling someone. sme people like me do not have very much confidence and get scared when they evn think about what will happen. so please... don't tell people thaty are stupid and of course they should tell them because it's not that easy.....

My family are very religious people. My great grandfather was a priest, my grandpa and my uncle also. My whole family (cousins, uncles...) go to church every sunday and have read the bibble. I do not believe in God, or the bibble or in Satain. I don't think like the whole idea of organised religion. I'm afraid to tell anyone because of what they might do. I was talking to my cousin one day I was joking aroung and said "damn that bibble." and he looked shocked, completely caught off guard and utterly apauled. Then the conversation shifted to homosexuality and I said I had no problem with it and again he gave me the same look. I realised he could tell his parents and then tell my dad and that was the end of me. I'm nervous around subjects about god or when someone ask me who god is to me, because I don't have a convincing answer.

i want to admit that i love a guy so much that i think about him all the time. we've tried to make a go of it 2 times but each time something goes wrong. i really do like this guy and i want to tell hime how i feel. but everytime i go to where he works or where he lives, i get too scared and i go natious and feel sick. when i do finally realise how i feel about him, i get scared and run away. and i heard from one of his workmates that he is going away soon to work in the army!!! shall i tell him how i feel?

me and my friends are always fighting about one thing or another. if there is no fighting, then there is ale=ways bitching going on. i want my friends to be close friends but we always do the same thing everyday. i think that this is because we get so bored that we need a bit of excitement so crazy stuff goes through our hads and becomes reality. what shall i do to stop this fighting? what different can we do ? we always hang out at the same place everyday as well. where would we go? what would we do and will it save our friendship. i need advice on this .......

i want to admit that i have been abused by my brother since i was 4. i am 16 now and it has stopped. i still worry that i might have an sti... do you think i should go for a check-up? i am so worried.

I am not as perfect as I try to make people think. I am always smiling, I volunteer for things, I write for a local paper, I play with my kids but inside I am screaming my head off.

I met a girl on the weekend and we went to my car. Inside I found out 'she' was a man. I think that these people should declare this before it goes too far.

I was abused by a neighbour when i was about 7-9 for two years. I know he did it to relations of mine to. He is a friend of the family but i hate him. Im 20 now is it to late to confront him or am i better saying nothing