I have been lying to my boyfriend for several years about my smoking.. He thinks I’m a non-smoker. Also I lied to him about getting physical with other men in his absence. What do I do? Should I tell him about it? I am totally in love with him but he’s not committed to me. What should be done?

I live with my girlfriend in our own flat. I love my girlfriend very much. I've been with her for 5 years. Lived with her for a couple of months. The thing is i don't think i want to live with her yet. I just want to be on my own at night and play on my games console and surf the net. My girlfriend lets me do this stuff anyway but it's not the same with her there and i always end up sitting and chatting with her or taking her out. Which i enjoy but i always regret that i didn't stay in on the net. Most of my friends are unemployed or work part time jobs and as such spend most of thier time on the internet. When i get home from work i feel a bit excluded because they've been playing Counter Strike Source all day and are laughing at stories that happened during the day. They also all get together at night at a friends house and play halo2 until 3AM which i can't do because of work. I always wished i was 15 again but i think now i'd settle for unemployed and living alone. :(woe is me

I have read these for about a year now, and I think I am finally ready to admit. I had an affair for over three years with a married woman. I even moved just to be closer to her. It has been over now longer than the affair lasted, but I still have not let myself even think about getting into another relationship. I still feel too guilty. I know pretty pathetic. The worst part of it all the longer I am alone the easier it is to be alone. I don't want to be this way but I don't know how to stop.

I'm the most popular girl at school but I wish sometimes that I was an outcast. My parents expect so much out of me. I can't be myself. Alot of people think I'm stuck up but I'm not like that. I wish I could be someone else.

i love my best friend and i'd do anything for her, the only problem is i never see her. she's dating this guy and is with him EVERY day. she did the same thing with the last guy she dated, and even though she ignored me for two months, i was there for her when she wanted to hang out when they broke up. i've always been there for her. the thing is though that i've been going through really hard times of my own and she's not there for me. i've called her a few times just to say hi, but she's always busy and never wants to hang out. i miss the fun we had when she was single. i value her friendship a lot, so i don't want to tell her i miss her and have her get mad. i always do things for her when she asks. i even called plan parenthood and drove her there when she messed up with her current bf and needed the morning after pill. i dont need her to do that for me. i just need her friendship right now, and she can't even do that for me. how can i tell her that without her getting mad?

I quit as headboy!!! What started in May last year finally ended this monday. And I am glad.

I'm 31, a homeowner & happily married for almost 9 years. Our dream is to become pregnant and have a child, but I don't think it will ever happen. We've been working with a fertility dr. for about 18 mos. and I am diagnosed with 'unexplained infertility'. The dr. says everything looks fine and that there is no apparent reason why we shouldn't be able to get pregnant. Women all around me seem to be getting pregnant with ease. I'm beginning to think this will never happen. My husband and I don't fight, but I can tell we're losing the enthusiasm in our marriage. I don't think I can bear another negative pregnancy test. We'd both make great, dedicated parents, but as far as adoption goes...I don't think we could afford the fees. Sometimes I think I want to get a divorce because I just don't think it's fair to him to hold such and obvious dad-type guy in a marriage that will most likely not produce a child. Life is lonely and aimless to both of us if we can't have kids.

I am in love with my husband's brother. He and I have been intimate before and since we've both been married. I think about him all the time, i even dream about him. I'm aftraid I am going to say something in my sleep about him, and my husband's going to hear. I would never leave my husband, for my son's sake, but I am so sad...I feel like I will be stuck in a marriage where I can't stand for my husband to touch me for the rest of my life. I try to fake it, but my husband knows that I don't like sex with him. How long can I fake it for my child's sake? How can I make myself be passionate for my husband again? He can be a real ass. I am so sad..why does mt brother in law make me so happy, and my husband make me so sad?