i had been trying to have sex with many ladies & had safe sex with many now i want the ladies pay me for having sex

Pleeeease help. Hey...so I've been with my boyfriend for a while now. and in that amount of time my feelings for him have grown very strong. He told me that when he was younger he experimented with drugs and he had stopped. I was ok with it and learned to accept the fact that he didnt really make the right decisions. Normally I am very judgemental torwards people who do drugs. Its bad I know. But recently he told me that he has started doing drugs again. He said the first time was at a house party. When he told me I didnt know what to say. I knew not to patronise him and not to give him a lecture on how i feel about it because he obviously knew. Anyway I think hes getting started again and I love him so much....what should I do or say? please give me advice. please

I think my bf cheated on me so I cheated on him. I wanna break up but he swears he didnt cheat and that he loves me so much we can work through it. I am so unhappy! things were going downhill before the cheating issue, but I do love him, though I'm no longer IN LOVE. I would do anything to avoid hurting him. He is talking marriage and children and I'm DYING for a way out. He treats me GREAT and does everything for me. I am scared that if I let him go I'll never find someone who will treat me as good. Should I break up with him and if I do, How do I do it without breaking his heart?!?!

I joined a dating site that had a chat and message boards feature. I tried to get into the established clique of users but to no avail, wasn't ever truly welcomed. I noticed that the women who were actively involved on the boards or chat were as what society labeled extremely hot. I wanted desperately in, I wanted to be heard, to be accepted that I got frustrated and created a fake profile w/fake pictures. The face wasn't me, but the online personality was me. I have 'met' some incredible people under this deception, one in particular. I didn't mean to take it this far, I just wanted to chat w/adults after a long day's work, to be accepted. WE have chatted online and offline for hours, he is a great friend. I can't ever meet them, for I have decieved them, I like them and they like me, but can't really go any further. I feel horribly, but it cant go any further, I will lose a great friend. I didn't mean to take it this far.

Ok, I am currently dating somebody right now. I think he is the greatest guy. BUt, recetly my ex and I have been talking.I have been in love with him forever though. He says he loves me too but, I really don't know. My new guy have NOT had sex. my ex adn I have.....ALOT! But, I still am crazy about my boyfriend. Now, my ex is the one I am in love with. And it is not the sex.

ah! well.. lets face it: people make mistakes. its human nature. shit, I didn't think it'd happen to me. yes I'm aware of the consequences that are now burned into my memory- 'everytime u make love u could be making your firstborn child.' some of us have done it and admit to it, some have done it and deny it, some it just didn't occur to because they're apparently blessed with a partner who answers to their every beck and call. ok, strike that last one. truth of the matter is, some do it, some don't. I know some don't agree with it, and others could care less. anyways, yes you may have figured it out. no, I don't care for insults and name calling, because despite what anyone says, I am aware of what has happened and aware that I put myself in this situation.. so, spare me.. had a one night stand that I barely remember, yet somehow remember the dudes full name. hm, is it fate? shit I was drunk off my mind I'm damn surprised I remember his first name.. so that one night stand turned into pregnancy. shit, now what? here's this amazing little being growing inside me, and I don't know where to find the father. I'm tempted to track him down. I'm tempted to just fuckit and wait to see if he calls me. (yeah... right... like he's gonna call me, its already been a coupla months and I haven't heard from him) shit, why do they bother asking for the number if they're not gonna call? well, of course I'm going to accept responsibility for this child's well-being, but should I hunt the daddy down to let him know? or is it his own fault for not calling? I sorta feel obligated to let him know and if I were in his shoes, I would want to know. of course, I would've called! sigh. what to do, what to do... I want what's best for the child, and I'm just not sure what the next move should be.. after all, time is running out. anyone have any suggestions or advice sans ridiculous comments (which are more likely unavoidable...) anyhow, maturity appreciated.. thanks.

Why can't I be myself and live my life the way I prefer ? Im gay and close to 60 now. I was married for 15 years and have a daughter. I've always had to conceal my real feelings and play the role of a regular heterosexual to the outside world just because the majority of people is straight and think gays do not have the same rights as straight people. Any comments on this ?

I messed around with this bitches boyfriend (she messed with mine first so it's only pay back)