I am 35 and have been married for 6 years. For the last year or so I have been flirting with a lady at work. I am thinking about taking it farther with her. She is divorced and about 10 years older than me. She is also in a position of authority at work. I think it would be great.

i dont wanna live.i dont like the future.i am always thinkin about my past cuz' when that time i was happier.i want to do a suicide.my dad and my mum are separated.i cant stand it anymore.i have a step mother.my life is dissaster.i tried to do a suicide but i survived.every day im thinkin about it.i have seen alot in my life.i dont want to suffer anymore!!!

my mom tells me to always be honest with her...but i twist everything i do almost drastically so she'll approve..shell ask where i was and ill say hangin out with people from youth group..these kids definently DO NOT go to youth group..r shell ask what me and my boyfriend did that night and ill say oh we went to a basketball game..when we'd really been having sex..my mom trys to act cool and then asks if weve kissed yet..........i say no hes a really shy guy mom

I hate myself for doing what I did. I actually had sex with The Red Haired Guy knowing full well I was with My b/f. I can't tell my b/f because he'll hate me and and I like it better when we don't fight. What should I do?

this is my first time but here it is....... im 19, im married to a 28 year old guy. ive been married for 7 months. about a year ago i was working at a concession stand, i am a huge flirt. one of the guys that work on the baseball fields had been talkin to me and then one night, we were alone and he started tickling me and stuff then he asks me- what would you if i kissed you right now?- i didnt even know what to say. then he did and i put my hands on his neck. i liked it alot. the guy was 29, married, and had 3 kids. i was 18 and engaged. that night i went to my boys house and told him that this guy cornered me and grabbed me and tongued me. which was a total lie. so my husband was gonna go kick his ass and so was my dad. well they never found him, but i lied to everyone. they were trying to get him fired and charge him with sexual harrasment. well, today at work i saw this guy again for the first time since that night. all i could say was holy shit. hahahaha.

I've told so many lies in my life, it's hard for me to remember the truth sometimes. Seriously, the ONLY person I have never lied to is my fiance. I truly believe I have a mental illness sometimes. My cousin tried to rape me when I was younger. He tried to talk me into oral sex again recently and I said no. I'm proud of myself. Also, a boy I've know since Kindergarten and considers himself my best friend... I hate him.

I slept with my boyfriends best friend while my boyfriend was asleep in the next room. I didn't feel so bad about it, which is making me feel worse, if you know what I mean. I'm not even attracted to his friend - I just love the fact that he wants me so much. I do this alot with guys....I think it stems from low self esteem.

Heyy...ok So ive previously left messages on here about my last boyfriend and how i was all upset and all that bull shit. I forgot my password so I had to make a new one of these things. anyway, basically i did move on like a lot of you suggested and I have found someone who I love so much. I have NEVER felt like this about anyone. The thing is....im realllly in a screwed situation. Ive been lying to him about my age. He thinks hes a year older than me but hes actually 4 years older than me. Yeah this probably doesnt matter....but im not exactly "old" im youuung. i know that people think of young people as losers and they dont have feelings. But seriously this guy is crazy about me and im crazy about him. The other day he said he thinks what he feels is more than love. Ah i dunno....i don't want to risk our relationship but I guess it would be wrong not to tell him. Can anyone help? Please? I cant break this one up. I really cant. ahh im so confused.