i secretly despise my parents. i moved in with them a few years ago as a result of my alcohol abuse. i have made great progress, personally, and in the process I have become aware the true nature of my parents. they are white trash. they are under-acheivers, quite negative and stricken with a lazy poverty mentality. they complain about everything. my mother is a blind christian, waiting to die so she can join jesus in heaven. she is completely without control of her emotions, and i have always been on my toes not to offend her. my father only did what was absolutely necessary to get by in life, and he blames anyone he can to displace his responsibility. he finds pleasure in finding fault in my brother and i. only now do i realize that my awful parents are the reason i was such a fool in my early adulthood. i had a horrible childhood in fear of my mother and ridiculed by my father. i could go on and on, but basically i despise them and i wish they would hurry up and die.

My significant other is orgininally from Mexico. Here is here legally in the US, but obviously has other family there still. Long story short, his uncle has illegally immigrated to the US and is currently staying with us. To make matters worse, we didn't know he was coming. He has just been here... no estimated time of departure... He's a nice guy, but I am going crazy! I really want my privacy back! He says he's going to go to another city "eventually," but he's still getting medical treatment for arthritis here. What should I do???

I have a problem..kind of. i like my bestfriends xboyfriend and then my bestfriend..I dont know what to do. My bestfriends xbf said me & him could be friends with benifits even If he gets a girlfriend. Plus i dont know if i should tell my bestfriend that i like her..What should i do...

I have a problem..kind of. i like my bestfriends xboyfriend and then my bestfriend..I dont know what to do. My bestfriends xbf said me & him could be friends with benifits even If he gets a girlfriend. Plus i dont know if i should tell my bestfriend that i like her..What should i do...

I am a law student who clerks at a firm full time in the summers. Every moring I leave the firm library (where I work), get a cup of joe, and walk around chatting for a bit looking for an opportunity to shake hands with one of the big bosses (or anyone). What they don't know is that I have probably been scratching my genitals, and that, at any given time, there is a good chance those same genitals are shedding the herpes. I tell myself I will stop trying to pass the herpes and as far as I am concerned I have stopped. But I have made this promise to myself before. I hate these lawyers even though I will be one in a year because they make me work in a library even though there are several offices available.

Yesterday I struck my girlfriend. Totally rational, I even apologized the moment before, I slapped her across the cheek. Not hard, didn't leave a mark. Of course she went beserk immediately. But I don't feel sorry. Same issues for a long time and talking about the problems brought many promises but no action. Talking just didn't seem to be getting the point across to her that she was causing me a lot of mental pain. So I felt I needed a way to escalate the communication, to get the point across. If it's o.k. to communicate that you love someone via physical action, hugs, kisses, etc is it also alright to communicate intense frustration and pain in the analagous sense, slap, pinch, etc? Should I apologize if I don't feel sorry or when she finally does talk to me again just tell her I felt such an intense need to have my communication acknowledged that I felt no other way was open to me.

Me and my ex girlfriend were living together for 6 months before we split up. It was over really petie things like forgeting to take the bins out or house work. Anyway she moved out without telling me despite the fact that I knew she was moving out and took all her stuff with her including the telephone and kitchen utensils. Anyway I moved out a few weeks later and moved to Newcastle. I have now found out tHAT she is living 2 streets away from my new address.

Lets just get this out there. I am in a relationship with a woman I care deeply for, we live a few states apart but manage to talk for at least 5 minutes daily. Well since I have been with her I have matured & look at my life from a different perspective. With this came the realization that the last person I had cared about this much I had wronged very badly. We were friends & i had hoped to make us more but she moved away before I could make that possible. We kept in contact via the internet & I confessed my feelings by which she told me she felt the same. Unfortunately, I was unable to deal with my emotional issues about being apart so I completly blew up at her for now reason & stopped writing. Well 2 years later I now see that i was wrong & used the old web address I had for her to explain my side. Surprisingly enough it was still active & she responded with an invitation to a chat sight. But I am unsure of how I should approach the situation especially with me having a gf