I recently spent a bachelor party weekend with guy friends (I wasn't the bachelor). The first night we ended up at a strip club some time after midnight. I got too drunk. They trickled out to go back to the hotel to sleep. I stayed. I didn't return to the hotel until after 6pm the next day. When I woke up after crashing for a few hours I found my pockets full of credit card receipts. I called the credit card companies (two separate cards) to assess the damage - >$20,000. I've been in strip clubs before (irregularly) but have never spent more than $150-200. Not feeling so good about myself right now but making some resolutions may help ease the pain. Resolution #1 - Don't get drunk in strip clubs.

I'm married, 42 and very confused. I'm bored and depressed and without direction in my life. I find myself going onto the internet while my wife is sleeping and chatting and using my webcam. Started with women and now I sometimes chat with men because it seems naughty and strange and dangerous. I don't think I'm gay or anything, but I dont know anymore. I just know that I'm bored and tired and lack passion and excitement in my life and doing things that I know are wrong make me feel alive. what should i do?

my parents got divorced right before i started middle school. i'm graduating highschool and they still fight all the time. My dad sometimes stays here for awhile. Usually when he stays I'm angry at first but then i get used to him. This time he was here for a good 6 weeks. Mom kicked him out bc he didnt tell her goodluck at her new job. It really upset me this time and i miss him a lot. Also, i have a little sister and i know everytime he comes she thinks they are going to get remarried and then he leaves and it breaks her heart. Once the got in a fight and mom told me to call the police and i didnt and she got really mad. i feel like they always make us pick sides and it really sucks. Will their fighting effect my relationships with people? Should i tell my parents how this makes me feel?

i know this sweet guy and i'm sure that he loves me and maybe more than i do but i love him so much however eveytime he asks me out something happens to prevent that its like the world don't want us together and everytime he wants a kiss i push myself back and i don't know the reason ..once i asked him if he was pissed about it and he said no..and that makes me feel even worse..and i don't know what to do

HI, A friend "T" just said that he wants to beat me.He said that he would love to see me get failed and would do anything so that i cannot study.He even said that he would hide my books break my bones if necessary.He wants to top and hates me coz i topped last year.Whenever he gets more marks than me he is overjoyyed and if I get more than him he is so angry and curses and vents his anger right there infront of me.Uptil today I thought well ok its normal but his remarks of today have me a bit worried.Any suggestions on what I should do are most welcome.

I have been married for 5 years and my wife only gives me sex once a week if I'm lucky. Recently a very good looking young woman moved into the townhouse next to mine. The night she moved in I was woken late at night by the sound of her making moaning sounds. I quickly realised that she was having sex. At first I tried to ignore it but I found myself getting erect. As the days went on, I started quietly masturbating myself in bed while listening to her. I try to ejaculate just as she comes also. I am afraid that my wife will realise what I am doing and tell me how dirty and evil I am then I would probable never get sex again. Recently I have hidden a voice recorder under the bed to record her loud climaxes and then I masturbate to them again while my wife is at work. Am I a pervert? I don't know, but I did feel the need to confess here.

I am a 31c y/o male,divorced,have kids,got a great girlfriend,and after 20 years,I have finally accepted that I want to be a woman!!!! It happened when I was eleven,dressing up,my parents caught me,and I try to close out four yeats of my life.I was never molseted by my parents,my aunt did french kiss me when I was real young,but I saw one of my mother's friend's whom performed in drag,and fell in love!!!! I had a brief affair with a transsexual at 19,and was scarred,not about finfing out,but I enjoyed it!!! Recently,my girlfriend(also my best friend),and I did somethings that made me realize that I want to be a woman.I know this is common place,but society is so one-tracked,and I cannot put my children through that,that she is the only one that knows how I feel,and what I have done.

My dad died over 3 years ago, and ever since my mom has been seeing another guy. This upset me and my brother and sister because we felt like she just rushed into it to get her mind busy, and he was a friend before my dad passed, but didnt start showing up till he was gone. Now he lives with us, doesnt work, and it seems like he is freeloading off my mom. Hes on the couch watching tv all day. Although she claims they are so in love i feel like she is being taken advantage of. She refuses to recognize it. My life has been turned upside down ever since my dad passed. She takes his side no matter what the argument, and he always get his way. She thinks i act the way i do because im changing, but i dont have the heart to tell her what im really upset about because she gets upset easy and gets defensive whenever the boyfriend is brought up. LIFES NOT FAIR.