I don't know what to do. I know that my ex doesn't have any feelings for me anymore, and I have moved on to my new b/f...but I can't help but miss him. I sit in first hour and see him flirt with one of my best friends and I don't know what to think. He won't talk to me or look at me yet he is still taking me to prom. Every question he has for me has to be asked to my best friend. I don't understand this. Should I be feeling this way?

I hate my brother and want him to die because he molested me on Christmas Eve when I was 11 in the back of the family van while driving to Grandma's house. He used to try to watch me undress from cracks in the doorways. I can't tell because my father would literally kill him and I'd rather live with this secret than force my family to deal with it. I told my mom when I was 15, but she skewed the information in her head to make it bearable, and thinks I admitted to her that we "experimented" together. This is utter and complete bullshit. At the time of the molestation my brother thought I was sleeping. I later told him I wasn't and I knew everything he did, I was just afraid to open my eyes or make a sound. I rolled over to get his hands off me. This is not mutual experimentation. It's been ten years now so I dont think I'll ever really tell my family but it has ruined me for life. I will never be okay.

I'm married and my husband wants it to work more than I do. I have been with my husband for 11 years (8 dating/3 married). I met someone else and I would rather be with the other fella. I have been thinking that I have grown tired of the relationship I've been in since my teenage years. The only thing stopping me from acting hastily is our toddler. My husband wants the therapy. I think I've made up already that I want to move on - and I've voiced that to him. Even if things don't work with the other fella, I still think I want out of this relationship.

My boyfriend and I broke up about 6 days ago. Now I am dating this really sweet cute guy and I don't know if I should be feeling guilty that I moved on so quickly. I don't even know if I am truely over my ex or not. One of my friends has told my ex to wait a while before he should date again and yet here I am already hooked up. Should I feel guilty about this?

I dont know about this??? Admitting your secrets online? Oh well maybe when I find some skeletons in my closet I will post them untill then I just wanted to say Hi to everyone out there. Im new here.

Sometimes I think I only stopped self-injuring because I'm scared they'll take my daughter away from me.

An update, well it looks like I was wrong about her spying on me. It wasn't the case at all. She was surprised when I brought it up, and I gave her my reasoning of us not talking at the time and she said she did want to talk to me that was why she had emailed me in hopes I'd talk to her. Well I felt very stupid, like really stupid. Glad I brought it up and cleared the air. But aside from that things are going very well once more. They say love is addictive and I couldn't agree more. It feels wonderful to have that special someone in your life. We are going to take a trip together on the 12th of this month, have a room reserved in this nice hotel, and we are going to spend the weekend seeing all the sites, eating out at wonderful resturants. I'm going to surprise her, going to see if they can have roses delivered to the room so when we get there they will already be there, and the room will be filled with their fragrance.

Everyone thinks of me as a nice guy- you're so understanding, so caring, you're a great friend and are fun to talk to; but nobody ever looks at me in a romantic light. I feel like I'm doomed to solitude forever, regardless of how many times I'm told I'll find someone. My confidence is basically so low and i have no ego whatsoever that i feel I am ugly. In order to not think of how alone i truly feel, I offer my help to others to divert my focus from my worries. If I'm focused, I can't think of my own woes. So thats why I appear so caring and understanding, yet its like a circle and. i dunno.. I'm doomed.