Hey there. For the first time in life i have a career opportunity with co workers who actually care about my well being. They are a bit religious although the organization is not based on any religious concepts. I am not too religious of a person but so far I have controlled well the antireligious remarks I tend to make in day to day life. So this should play out interestingly. Then There is love- I have no sign of a loved relationship in life in the near future and i miss it so much. My ex really messed me over bad but I hit on anything that moves hoping to get that love back again. I miss the bond, and the sexual nature although i could do without sex I want love and a connection to someone else. Things on a financial level are a pin right now, im pretty messed over on this level- My savings are gone and im spending the last of them today, no love, i question my friendships, and the whole work thing but for some reason I have a smile on my face and dont know why.. Am I nuts?

I'm looking for some good ways to meet new people. Guys really. I'm not into the whole internet dating thing. Any advice?

Hi,My friends birthday was on 10th apirl.But due to certain reasons he didn't have a birthday party on the day he is gonna have it sometime after mid of May.I hate his parties.They are bore and pretty much a waste of time.Can't tell him that might break his heart coz he thinks his parties are so cool.Last year I didn't go to his party.Had a perfect reason.Should I go this year or make up an excuse?Those who think i should not got any ideas for excuses?

I've been married for 7 years to a wonderful woman. I think I've been cheating almost from the beginning. At first I didn't think of it as cheating. It was porn. But porn turned into classified browsing on Craig's List. And Craigs List turned into placing my own ads. Finally, one night I answered an an placed by a prostitute. $200 bucks. Crazy. I went for it. I don't know why, but I did. And now the guilt is crazy! I can't get through my days without remorse. My wife did nothing to deserve this. I know that the issues are with me and me alone. Starting with my addictions and physical manifestations of lust. I feel horrible. But I don't want to say anything because I don't want to lose my wife. Inside I feel like whatever it was that I did will be my cross to bear - forever. I can't figure out if dealing with the guilt is punishment enough or if I should seek counseling and possibly ruin the best thing that has ever happened to me.

Incredible !! The girl that I threw out of our hotel room is suing me…LOL. I’ve got to see this. I don’t even care if she wins. I’m just curious as to how she intends to explain the circumstances….Oh Wow ! Is money really worth that much humiliation? I guess for some people it must be. We’re going the distance, no out of court settlements here…..OMG !!! This is toooo funny.

last jan its was my 21st birthday party and all the family came down and i got so drunk i ended up sleeping with my cousin which i feel bad about but now i have just found out i am having his baby what do i do please help !

I feel fat and ugly I feel muddled and wrong I feel confused and upset and pissed off, I feel like I'm losing people, I feel like it's my own fault, I feel angry at them because it's *not* my fault, I feel like people are blaming me for things when I was in the right, I feel like people are blaming me for things when I was in the wrong, which is worse, and I'm not sure which is which, I feel like I'm being paranoid and silly, I feel like I don't know how to make it go away, I feel like crawling to all the people I can't crawl to as if they could make it better, and I can't even curl up and have a hug off anyone because of the anger inside me making me mad at everyone for everything. It will be better tomorrow, or the day after, or the day after, or some day after that. But right now my head is muddled.

When I was married (over 8 years) I was miserable almost the whole time. The only joy I had in my marriage was my beautiful children, whom my wife almost took away during our divorce. One week, after contemplating killing myself, I was so depressed. I ran into my first love on a business trip and we began an intermittent affair that lasted about a year. I was completeley in love with her again, though we were both married and live in different countries. She is amazing. Her husband and parents found out and she wrote me telling me never to contact her again. That was more painful than the divorce by far. Several years and lots of $$$$ later, I have my daughters 50% of the time and love them even more - they are the light of my life. No more marriage for me, though, that is a contract built by and for women. If I ever see Mari and she is no longer married, I will not let her get away again! I will go to my grave loving that woman, and regretting the time we spent apart.